Is it normal that i intimidate guys ?

Hmm, from what you've said nothing stands out to me as particularly intimidating, but who knows, people can be weird.

I hear from a lot of people (guys and girls) that I intimidate them or that they were afraid to talk to me at first, however I have a really alternative style (mohawk, piercings, wear a trenchcoat a lot) and people around here apparently find me a bit scary. Little do they know how easy to get along with I am. ;P

Beautiful girls ARE intimidating. We know you don't bite and such but there might be some big alpha dude not far away ready to punch us.

it is absolutely a possibility to intimidate a man. Men naturally seek a strong woman who can handle herself, however, we want to be the alpha, provider, your brick wall to stand against. If all you ever show is the "I don't need you" attitude, even if you're not intimidating them you're probably running them off. I'm not saying go all out and show weaknesses blah blah blah. I'm saying , we men KNOW women are equals, so that whole "I am woman, hear me roar" attitude can just be turned down a bit.

Maybe you are showing them the urge of a long term relationship. Men aren't that afraid of relationships. We just need women to not try to mold us. Maybe you pick the guys that look well but don't fit your description. He sees your dissatisfaction and just doesn't try. Maybe he's just not asking in the same way you envision it. We aren't mind readers, daddy taught you a great way in his time, but you'd be hard pressed to find that exact scenario in this age. Mom probably gave you a list of things to look for that makes you decide whether you continue the conversation or kill it yourself. Not giving that guy who would ask you out, a chance.

Basically, try to blend superwoman, damsel in distress, sophisticated, freak.

Are your conversations ALWAYS about what you're looking for or your job, or future plans Nice to establish, but enjoy the moment and just talk about fun stuff. Have you ever went on a great vacation? Where else will you visit? Would you do outside activities. If you can laugh at anything even his push for sex, that most of us do, then you have a chance for a date. We'll want time around you more. Please remember, just because we hint towards sex doesn't make us a pig.I'm the most loyal man I know, but if you're attractive then you'll know from me. not my fault every other guy did so and you're tired of it. Pass me and you missed out, trust me.

Point: think about what's being said and keep the first conversation light. Let him know through your womanly ways it's ok to ask you out. Stay off your damn phone in public. We think you could be contacting the man everyone can't believe you don't have. Try to NOT be so serious in your first conversation Don't allow him to be either. That's actually a tip I give men.

You'll be ok it just takes time. PLUS early 20s is a great time to search, but you still have life to live.

What I got out of this, "Somebody please re-assure me of my insecurities" -_____- you're probably no more than a 7 lol.

being high is funny and makes you focus on your own thoughts more. Because you weren't used

"I just can't stand the idea of asking a guy out"

Have fun with the alpha-males.

Can you give me your number?
Just kidding, you're probably very very far from my home.

I think that is normal to intimidate some guys, but it is impossible to intimidate every guy you meet, specially if you are a pleasant person: smiles show confidence and that you are enjoying the talk.

"I just can't stand the idea of asking a guy out"
What's the problem about this? Actually it can help you a lot. Rejection is unlikely, for a cute girl.

No doubt some guys may be intimidated by you. It's a hard question to answer because I don't know you, but I'm quite sure guys are intimidated by girls they find attractive. If you want a guy, then you may have to ask him out, just know there's a chance of rejection. However, it sounds as if you won't have a problem finding someone.