Is it normal that i intend to keep my talents hidden?
Recently I got scolded by a friend because he told me that I should proudly display my talents and shine the brightest. That by hiding my talents I just pass as dull and even mysterious. Many people are surprised when I display my talents or achievements. Like that I'm the head of my own research paper and research, or even the things that I like and that my feelings and thoughts are amazing. However ,I dislike to be in the spotlight, I don't want to spend too much time. The truth is that as a person I've suffered a lot, it was really agonizing and perhaps my talents and will that allowed me to achieve what I have achieved is out of that. But I don't want to impress anybody or be the center of attention. And when I do display my talents, tell of my achievements or display who I am people are easily attracted or fond of me easily. I feel like I've got all the friends I need, and the minimal attention Therefore, Is it normal that I hide my talents, achievements and myself behind a dull behavior. I just do not want to stand out and be praised... I really dislike praise.