Is it normal that i imagine myself with someone before we meet?

Whether it is from afar or based on a name I've heard, I often make up a whole plot line of what my relationship would be like with that person. Then afterwards I approach the person and actually see what they're like and let things roll. Is it normal to do this sort of make-believe?

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  • "The power of imagination does have its limits, however the limits of imagination have power"

    - Tommy the cat, MD.

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  • Jrgina

    I have done that a lot of times :D
    And since the eyes sometimes are faster than your brain it will feel like you have seen / been on the Place before, but its just your eyes that sees it and then see it again it will feel like the opposite of a flashback

    Hope it helped ;)

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  • ccjigsaw

    I guess so. I did that with my current bf, but I always imagine the worst. I assumed he was a druggy, popular etc... Which i'm not into lol But I realized I didn't ACTUALLY know a thing about him, so I asked him out since for god knows why, I thought about him constantly. I long before assumed I would go on maybe 2 dates with him, realize he was a druggy looser and go my speperate way but... it turned out he was just a shy quite cute nerdy guy :P Totally clean. Been going out for 2 years now. But I definitely do it to. Normal :P

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