Is it normal that i imagine her pregnant?

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So,

there is a super awesome girl in my life that I have been talking to on and off for nearly 3 years now. We recently had lunch together when she was off on spring break. Later that evening I had the thought of what it would be like married to her and suddenly if she was pregnant with our baby. I felt really weird thinking that as the relationship is not even close to that level but I felt happy in that moment. I imagined us smiling, walking together and it filled me with joy knowing that. Is that normal? I tend to explore all opportunities with people I meet in my mind, but she takes the cake. I hope this doesn't mean I'm on the road to having psychotic thoughts.

Thanks,

Watashikara

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    I think what you're describing is very hopeful and who knows she might be the right one, but she might not. It could perhaps be a tad bit obsessive but I certainly don't see it as psychotic. As long as you're able to release your fantasies if it turns out that she does not share the same romantic ambitions as yourself then I don't see the harm in it.

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  • Gbm1
    10 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with being positive and optimistic :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Sounds normal to me. Most of us look for a life long partner.

    ...but if you start following her around, going through her trash, and collecting her fingernail clippings...see a shrink ;)

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  • Energy
    10 years ago

    What if she doesn't plan to get pregnant and only wants to adopt?

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    • EccentricWeird
      9 years ago

      What does that have to do with anything, you politically correct piece of dong?

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      • Energy
        9 years ago

        What doesn't it have to do with anything, you politically incorrect piece of dong?

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    I'd suspect that envisioning a desirable woman pregnant with your child would be the culmination of the pursuit, the conquest and the attachment of marriage. I too would be happy if those were my goals and they were fulfilled.

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  • WokeUpScreamingFilmNoir
    10 years ago

    My wife is so fat, I have to pretend she is pregnant to get a hard on to fuck her.

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