Is it normal that i hide my relationship status from the world?

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Hello, I am still fairly young (19) and have never been in a relationship...or had anyone ever take interest in me, at that. I have kissed no one, just truly been with no one in any way. It saddens me, yes, but there's really not much I can do about it. Now, my question is, is it normal that no one knows this? It's a really big mystery to everyone who knows me! I have a close family and a very tight knit relationship with each one of my friends, but not one of them has a clue if I've ever kissed anyone, dated, etc. Not to mention none of them have ever asked, but if they did, I would work my way around it and I would never let on. They may have a clue, but none of them have ever said anything to me, so I would guess that they're just kind of lost. It's very embarrassing to me and I can't bring myself to ever tell anyone. I constantly wonder if my parents ever wondered why I never talked about or went out with any boys (or even girls) throughout high school. Now I live off on my own, so they're even more in the dark. So, once again, is it normal that no one knows? That I keep it a secret?

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  • Pisslan616
    11 years ago

    I'm 19 and never even so much as held hands with a girl yet. I make no secret of this. Although I might not go around shouting it from the rooftops but if it comes up in conversation I tell people.
    Some people are surprised when I tell them.
    When I was at school my mum would sometimes ask me if there were girls I liked. Now I'm at uni she doesn't ask anymore. I guess she's assuming I must be seeing someone that I'm not telling her about, but I'm unfortunately not.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    I would probably do the same. I don't want certain people knowing about my love life. I wouldn't be doing it out of shame, but for the sake of privacy.

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  • joybird
    11 years ago

    It's none of their business unless you want them to set you up on blind dates or with their mates.

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  • CheyChey
    11 years ago

    Story of my life coz i feel a bit embarrassed about the whole thing though if i was to be in a relationship i'd definitely never shout it from the rooftops which is rather ironic, but yeah i guess it's normal

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  • MRmr
    11 years ago

    Why wouldnt it be normal...I rather have my life more unknown and mysterious anyway.

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