Is it normal that i having got pregnant ?

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hello i need a advice i am 20 years old women i have been living with my boyfriend for the past 3 years lately we have been having sex without protection because we want to have kids, but for the past 8 month we had try and nothing happen, and i notice because of this..things been getting ugly and our relationship is going down the drain.. please if anyone knows is it normal that i having got pregnant yet?

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    God help you if he's stressed coz you can't get pregnant!!

    Wait until it wakens him 2 or 3 times a night, the home is a mess, his clothes are covered in vomit, you are fat, you have no money to go out, you have no sitters, you are too tired to go out with him, it won't stop crying .....

    Please, please think very carefully about what you're doing! A baby can destroy the very best of relationships :o(

    A lot of men are not prepared for the changes involved to their lifestyles.

    Any reason you aren't married? Or is he not sure he wants to be committed to you? Think!!

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    It's funny because stupid teenagers get pregnant all the damn time randomly, but honestly! Conception is really hard! Nobody really considers how difficult it is to actually get pregnant. You can only get pregnant once a month on ovulation. It's is 99% failure rate if you try it on your period (that ones kind of obviouse) And certain positions help to get it up there. Not sure on the positions thoough. This point in your guys's life should be fun! Think of it this way, leave it up to chance. Have sex when you guys feel like it, without a baby in mind. Why? Because babys are lifes little miracles! Life surprises! Planning it takes all the fun out of it. Pass this on to your man to okay? ;) I'm sure theres nothing wrong with him, or you. Pregnancy is just to generalized on being easy because so many people have it happen on accident. Good luck to you both!

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  • ariannel
    12 years ago

    Yes, its normal. Conception isn't as easy as it looks. (Im a lot older than you but Im in the same boat) Make an appt to the Ob/Gyn. You'll be surprised the kinds of things that can interfere with pregnancy. You're so young that I bet your solution might be quite easy.

    Also, if you go to the Doc, I bet the tension will ease. You'll be doing something to address the issue which should placate your man (assuming he's not a giant douchebag).

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      12 years ago

      I think it's possible that she is the only one that wants kids.

      Great post, couldn't have said it better myself.

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  • Angel_g
    12 years ago

    We have been trying for over 3 years and the doctor has said to us to put baby making out of our minds and just have fun . It will happen when it happens . We go Ivf next year if it doesn't happen . Relax and just enjoy the sex .

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  • dorayla
    12 years ago

    thankss for all your advice

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  • Bootygopop
    12 years ago

    I agree with not trying. Just have sex when u feel like it and let it happen on its own.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    thank ppls

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