Is it normal that i haven't liked anybody in the past 3 years?

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I was never the kind of guy that dates a lot and that can't live without sex. I have had a few relationships so far, with both males and females (yep, I guess I wanted to experiment). I am 23 by the way.

So, for the last 3 years, I haven't really "fallen" for anyone. Neither males or females. I feel quite indiferent about people lately and don't even feel like having anything with anyone. I certainly do feel slighty attracted to a few people every now and then, but just don't enough to matter. I haven't had sex in 3 years, and I really don't even care.

So... am I alright?

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    You'll meet someone someday, it's normal to not have a crush on anyone for a little while. Perhaps there's just no one in your friendship circles that appeals to you?

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  • forever_anon
    11 years ago

    Three years is kind of a long time, but it sounds like you've probably been too busy to think about dating, or you just haven't met someone who appeals to you. couldn't say if it's normal or not, but in a way you are lucky. For most of my life I've always had a crush on some person or other, and it's very annoying.

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  • nelly96
    11 years ago

    Yeah its normal. My guess is that you're too busy to think about a relationship. Maybe you just don't have enough time on your hands or enough room in your life at the moment?

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  • Apple_guy
    10 years ago

    I too haven't dated anyone in 3 + years. Haven't found anyone that as really caught my attention (physically of course but not to date). I thought I might be asexual but who knows, I do want a gf though so I guess not asexual.

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  • Xanthie
    11 years ago

    I haven't been in a relationship in the past few years too.

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  • crimsonprodigy
    11 years ago

    I'm the same way, just don't care.

    As normal as you can be.

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  • xanyleon
    11 years ago

    I've tried being alone because I enjoy my own space but I've found that people end up liking me and it's hard for me to become emotionally attached due to this.

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  • animaguskid
    11 years ago

    To me the decision to be with someone that you find interesting without really caring what gender they are, or how often you're having sex and what other people make of your relationship status is really pretty bold. People like to think there is a "norm" of having x number of partners and x number women. It's crazy and it could never be right for everyone. Why should anyone dictate their sex based off of what's considered "normal"?

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