Is it normal that i haven't kissed anyone yet? advice?

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So I'm a little overweight, but besides that I'm pretty attractive. I have a nice face, smile, hair, & my body is okay. Not the best it could be though. However. Some boys do come onto me, but they are boys that I just don't like. The boys that I do like don't even flirt with me. But they talk to me a little. Is this abnormal that I haven't had my first kiss by this age? I feel like a loser because most of my friends have already lost their virginity by this age. Advice please?

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  • Corleone
    11 years ago

    I don't know what age you are, but I'll answer the question anyway.

    If you really want to kiss someone, anyone, you can try hooking up with someone you like, or even a random stranger you meet at a party. Though I have to warn you, a hookup can sometimes make you feel lonelier than you were in the first place.

    Anyway, you shouldn't feel like a loser because of this. Nobody cares as much about your inexperience as you do. As long as you avoid coming off as desperate, and you keep your social life in check, I'm sure you'll find someone decent.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    When a man is full steak has no flavor, but to a starving man a dry cracker is a feast.

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  • Cheet0
    7 years ago

    Well I am 25 and haven't had my first kiss yet, amd I am a guy...

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  • LordHawHaw
    11 years ago

    Almost 16 and thinking of being abnormal for not having kissed before.

    Girls these days ...

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  • Alysin
    11 years ago

    By what age?

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  • jenn23
    11 years ago

    Sorry guys I'm almost 16. & thanks for the insight. I feel better. & I probably will go out with the guy who likes me, but I don't seem to like. Thanks (:

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    • Unimportant
      11 years ago

      I'm not sure it's a good idea. I would not go out with anyone, unless I were REALLY interested.

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  • SeverusFan23
    11 years ago

    I never experienced a kiss with anyone either.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Bye what age how old are you.

    Don't worry about when other people lost their virginityor when they were kissed it will happen when it happens.

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    It's normal (and good) to decide not to kiss someone you don't like. Wait until you find someone you want to do it with. And yes, I know that advice is rubbish and predictable.

    Do the guys you like have any idea that you're interested in them; do you make it obvious by trying to flirt with them? Maybe agree to go on a date with one of the guys you don't particularly like if you get asked out; perhaps he'll surprise you or, if not, at least you'll have a some practice for when you get a chance with a guy you like.

    Or you could find a guy you like at a party, make sure you're both sufficiently drunk and snog his face. That wouldn't be my strategy, but whatever works for ya :P

    How old are you, by the way? If you're the same girl who made the one about never being kissed by 17, I think that's normal. I waited until I was 17 until my first kiss :P

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