Is it normal that i haven't had sex yet?

There's nothing abnormal about it. My buddy was a virgin until he was 21, nothing weird about the guy, wasn't a loser or anything, just never felt like taking that step with a girl.

To each their own, and if you want to wait for the right person, do so. Just don't hold your breath for the "perfect guy". Everyone has their flaws, just some less or more then others.

It's your body. Why should someone else dictate to you when you should spread your legs?

and if someone tries telling you differently... tell them the following.

"Village bicycle isn't suppose to be a lifetime goal"

or

"Yeah. Keep telling yourself that you're normal. Real women don't need to put out to the whole campus just to keep a man interested".

besides... to quote one of my supervisors: "The only reason I married my wife was because she wouldn't sleep with me."

he said that if she'd given in he'd have hit it and left.

You sound like a rare type of female. I say to keep this belief. Whoever holds your hand is a lucky guy. Stay true friend :)

Losing your virginity is honestly not that big of a deal. The first time is usually uncomfortable and not even really very fun. Don't think of it as losing anything - your vagina isn't a mystical temple. Have sex whenever the time is right with someone you won't regret doing it with. No biggie. And good for you for not going out and banging some guy just because your friends do.

i think its awesome that your havent had sex yet, your only 18 whats the rush, look at it this way say you have sex with some guy just to say you did it apart from the risk of disease and pregnacy you will one day regret it but, you will never ever regret waiting for the right guy and molment and it will come so just enjoy the time now, I have a friend who is 27 and still a virgin and when i ask her how she feels about that and if she feels left out she always tells me no that shes just not ready (now i will admit at 27 i find it strange especially since she never even really dates) but to each their own

Yes, its normal! I think you should only have sex until you're ready. I'm 22 and I think 18 is young. You may think you're a "grown ass woman" but once you're my age you'll see 18 as young. SOOOOOO, don't rush it 18 is ok to be a virgin. Don't let others influence your actions. It's when YOU'RE ready. Also, I think other sexual activities in lieu of sex is healthy, too.

Well im a guy who is about to turn 18 in less than a month and im not really interested in sex and relationships because I realise that im in no hurry, im not saving myself or anything religious. I am attracted to the opposite sex, but I have never felt the urge to 'just do it' (like some of my friends have told me too). Im not one of those guys who cant talk to girls so doesn't, I actually have quite a few girl friends who are attractive to me and talk very easily to them and few of them have said "why are you single". Iv never been ashamed to tell my friends Iv never had sex and even though Iv never done it my friends come to me for advice on how to ask out a girl or how talk to them (bit like hitch I guess).

>be 14
>be at friends house
>she sits on my lap
>boner initiated
>she feels it through tna pants
>fuck all night
>no condom, oh shit!
>she takes the test
>comes back negative

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Just try not to be that girl who won't kiss anybody until she's married. ;)

you're normal. 18 happened to be my year for it when all my friends had already been having sex for years. Just had to wait for the right guy as you said that i felt totally comfortable around.

Haha me and u are kinda in the same boat except I barely turned 20.Im also a virgin and am not really in a rush.Dont get me wrong,I do talk to girls(especially when I see a hot one) but have still not found any girls from around here that have stayed true to themselves.Whenever I see someone that I like I talk to her and later on ask about her to some friends only to find out that the girl has slept with this and that guy,etc,etc.Cant stand sluts. I almost lost my virginity when I was 14 but am glad the girl backed up at the last moment.Who knows maybe I wouldve had got her pregnant,std,etc. Some girls are better left alone....

No your not normal!! your unique...

Just think about it.

It's not normal these days but it's not to say it's not good. It's GREAT!!! Im 25 now and I waited until several months after I turned 18 and now that I look back I wish I would have waited like 5 more years but I don't totally regret it but I ended up pregnant rather earlier that I would have chosen. You will just know when you want to have sex so don't do it any sooner. Foremost, have respect yourself and listen to your instincts and don't question them or feel pressure. Don't flaunt your virginity either. Keep it to yourself as much as possible since I know many men upon finding out will try to swoon you and win you over just bang you because you're a virgin. Wait until you've hooked him and know he's into you for you and not just because he wants to be your "first".

No need for you to rush it. You have no idea how young you really are and your whole life is in front of you. I had sex (if you can call it that) when I was in grade school. By the time I had turned 16, I was a thirty-two year old oversexed married woman's human dildo.

Her husband was so busy with his career that he must have neglected her, and I was a willing student so she taught me everything and used me all day and all night to satisfy her unquenchable thirst. Being a nice guy I did everything she wanted to satisfy her need.

It sounds good, but it would have been better to lead a more normal early life. And I couldn't even try to satisfy her now because I think it would kill me. But sometimes when I remember back to that time, even though I don't recommend the experience, I get a glowing, floating feeling like a butterfly hovering in a summer breeze with no care in the world but to live.

well you got some good friends there but you well find the perfect guy theres plenty of fish in the sea well you sound nice i would go out with you but i can't

thank you all :) well that day will come and i dont really care if its gonna be painfull or anything as long as i feel that im doing the right thing..thank you all very much xx

when i was a kid you didn't usually lose your virginity till around 18. And the only relief you had was your imagination, your hand, and the occasional smuggled porno mag or maybe an underwear catalog.

Now kids can see any porno they want on the internet not to mention the great advances that have been made in Playtex fake genitals. So I dont understand the need to lose virginity so early these days.

Of course it's normal! You should definitely wait to do it with someone who you are comfortable with, but don't be so picky that you turn into the 40-yr old virgin lol. Essentially, you should just wait for a longer term relationship where you know the guy well and can feel comfortable exposing yourself to him!

just bang a jock asshole it feels good... and im a guy!!!

Got to go thru a lot of rocks to find the gem. But I guarentee u he won't be perfect. No body is. 18 is fine to be a virgin. Who really cares these days? Guys don't care if ur a virgin or not. Sex is sex, I am me, and u r u, it is what it is :) If u wanna wait then wait. Just waiting for that perfect man won't make it easier or "better". Cuz @ the end of the day.. Its sex :)
Goodluck with ur man hunt. =D