Is it normal that i have this type of friendship?

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Okay, so I have this best friend and we have been friends for 3 years now. Sometimes I feel like she doesn't need me. She is very popular with everyone, guys love her, and she goes out everyday. She never gets grounded, and she gets away with everything! Sometimes I feel like I'm not good enough foe her because I am always at home on Facebook...we don't have many of the same friends and the people she hangs out with hate me. Her boyfriend won't even accept my friend request! And she never answers her texts or calls because she is out. But when she calla me I always answer because I have no life. I just feel so lame and not good enough for her. is it normal to feel this way?!

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  • kekkiumai
    13 years ago

    I feel the same way. But its just telling you that you need to broaden your social network. Join clubs at school or something to meet new ppl. I understand it's hard to go up to random strangers an be like "yo wanna be my friend" but in clubs you have purposes to get to know each other and stuff. Then gradually theyll become good friends. But even through that if your bestfriend treats you right like calls you back when she misses a call or attempts to want to hang out don't neglect her. Show her you're still there.

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  • ilurvemyfriends
    13 years ago

    You feel insecure. Learn how to love yourself first. Then you feel that way. Act nicer, be friendlier. That will help you. Hope this helps ^^

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  • milflooker
    13 years ago

    Yes i guess, but it sucks.

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