Is it normal that i have this feeling of forgiveness?

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There is this girl I liked, she liked me back but she had a boyfriend. After a while she probably felt like I came too close and decided to cut off everything (deleted me from FB, and blocked me on everything). The only "bad" thing I did was being obviously annoyed by her boyfriend.

This all happened like, a month ago. Haven't heard from her ever since. It'll be her birthday 2 weeks from now and I still want to wish her a happy birthday by text (probably hasn't blocked me on that) and I want to tell her that I miss her.

You might look at me like I'm crazy, but I feel like living in hatred isn't my way to go and I feel like I should forgive (but not forget!), is it normal to? and what would you do in this situation?

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    What's to hate? She made it perfectly clear she wants nothing to do with you, right? No games, no leading you on, no cheating on you, just poof, and you are out of her life. So why would you hate her? And why would you even think she would appreciate hearing from you, birthday or not?
    Go find a girl that hasn't made it perfectly clear she wants nothing to do with you.

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    • iEatZombies_
      9 years ago

      This.

      OP, She wants you to leave her alone. There's nothing for you to forgive, as she didn't do anything to be sorry for. She did the right thing. Don't put any awkwardness on her for her birthday. Forget her, as she's trying to forget you.

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    • WeSeeNoChanges
      9 years ago

      Well, she had a bad relationship with her boyfriend. And she told me if they would break up that we'll hang out more, get to know eachother more blah blah - bottom line we will be together. She literally said you can count on that and even when that instable relationship of hers eventually ended, she said that she looked forward to be together. She gave the attention back that I gave her and we talked about lots of stuff (I'm leaving out details, but you'll get the idea).

      She made me fall in love and then suddenly punched me in the face (metaphorically lol) leaving me feeling confused and upset. THAT's to hate, and no, she did not made it perfectly clear that she wants nothing to do with me, fuck she actually said in our convo's that "I was perfect for her and I was -" blablabla.. That's why I would think that she would appreciate hearing from me. But, as I am writing this I'm actually getting pretty pissed how she treated me.

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        Not exactly as you posted above, but OK. Then whatever, turn it around. Why would you want a relationship with that lunatic?
        For whatever reason, you two do not meld well. Go find somebody who you might have a good thing with, rather than this schizo whatever you want to call it.

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        • WeSeeNoChanges
          9 years ago

          Yea I left some stuff out, sorry about that. But atleast I know what's the right thing to do now, and I wouldn't call it a schizo, it's more like the common bitch.

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    It's perfectly normal and healthy you've forgiven her.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    let sleeping dogs lie.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    9 years ago

    You're better off without her. Forget about contacting her and move on.

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