Is it normal that i have such a complex identity?

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I cannot find a label for my own identity, not out of despise for them, because mine is just so wild and different. First, I am aesthetically indifferent in that certain physical appearances are pleasing to me regardless of what gender the person is. Second, I am omnisexual because c'mon it's only sex and why limit yourself the number of partners who you can have a good time with, lol. Third, I am bisensual because I am just so into cuddling and tactile bonding with others from friends to my girlfriend. Lastly, I am hetero-romantic, because I can only get emotionally involved with females for some reason.

Comments are appreciated regarding my aesthetic, sensual, sexual, and romantic identities.

This seems like it would be a bit unnatural due to the complexity, but I assure you it's all natural to me. So, am I normal?

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  • Short4Words
    10 years ago

    You're only as complex as you want to seem. Everyone has little niches or preferences. I'm pretty much the same way except the multiple partners thing. I mean I thought I was weird but after being on IIN I realized their are so many people with unique ideas on sex and romance.

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    • TheMayneDude
      10 years ago

      Thanks :D

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Why do you feel the need to label yourself?
    It seems as though you accept yourself pretty much as you are, so why get all hung up on labeling?

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    • TheMayneDude
      10 years ago

      you're right, labelling is dumb.
      i'm just wondering if this is normal or not though?

      like do other people go to such lengths to find out about themselves?

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  • KeddersPrincess
    10 years ago

    Lately I've been identifying as a heteromantic grey-asexual but I'll probably think I'm something else later on. I just can't seem to figure myself out. I have no attraction to females. I find males to be sexually attractive but I have no desire to have sex with them (if that makes any sense at all). I am only turned on by ridiculous fetishes and these fetishes 95% of the time must involve my crushes in order to turn me on. I've only crushed on guys that are either celebrities or are in some other say unattainable.

    When I was in high school and everyone was talking about sex, I was busy trying to figure out what the fuck was wrong with me but, here's my conclusion, I have no sexuality. I am what I am damn it! A big, confused son of a bitch!

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You have a need to seem unique. Can't get any more normal than that.

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  • superanonymous
    8 years ago

    For a person that doesn't know how to label you sure labelled yourself pretty well... (even though it doesnt even matter)

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  • Wyomingite
    10 years ago

    It sounds like you've labeled yourself pretty well, bro. And who cares about labels anyway?

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    "Omnisexual". I like that word :)

    I think everyone has a complex sexual identity if they look deep enough. Yours might just seem more complex to you because you know the words for each part of it.

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  • Agirlsbestfriend.
    10 years ago

    omg... why don't you invent a new label that describes what you are and name it after yourself?!! that would be so funny and cool!!

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