Is it normal that i have strong feeling for my teacher

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I recently just graduated high school and realized i will never see any of my old friends and or teachers again. This realization made me quite upset. Once i started high school i had a teacher who i thought was cute, and i felt that that was normal. Who doesn't have a teacher throughout their life that at some point they think is cute? Well, things changed when i started to realize that maybe he felt the same. We started seeing more of one another during his free classes and it went on to something more, lasting until just this last year. We became more about each other after he started giving me rides home here and there, and then things got more serious. My senior year of high school rumors went around that he had engaged with other high school girls before my class, which caused him to lose his job. After these rumors started spreading people started finding out about me and him... but i denied everything because i really care about him and didn't want him to permanently lose his job... He currently doesn't work at my school anymore and i feel really horrible, and i still greatly care about him, is this normal?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    "i started to realize that maybe he felt the same. "

    There's your problem. it's one thing to have a crush on someone... but it's completely different to start carrying on with him or her when you KNOW it's inappropriate.

    I know you say that you care about him but.... is it really a relationship *worth* being in, if he's not only cheating on you but was cheating on you with OTHER underage girls?

    At some point you have to ask yourself, what are you worth? Aren't you worth having a man who wants only you? One that is mature enough to let you grow and develop on your own, vs one who toys with underage emotions when they're most vulnerable?

    It's time to consider that caring for someone doesn't mean they're worthy of the affection.

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  • 123456789assssssss
    7 years ago

    I ship it.

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  • Legion
    11 years ago

    Having feelings for a teacher is normal, but something that is best pursued once you graduate. Unfortunately, if a teacher is caught having sex with a student, no matter if the student wanted to or not, they will still prosecute him the same. Unfoutunately, law does not recognize love. I wonder though, if was doing this out of love, or just for sex.

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  • WordWizard
    11 years ago

    Stay away from this man he is not good for you. You have issues if you honestly think this is a good thing.
    You children need to understand that laws are made for a reason. Do you understand why they have laws against screwing children. THIS IS EXCACTLY WHY!

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    • Nikkixo18
      11 years ago

      I understand what your saying, and i appreciate your input but after being intimate with him for 3 years it became hard to realize that it couldnt happen anymore. This teacher infact, has lost his job and is under investigation for having sexual interactions but not only with me but other girls from past years at my school.

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      • WordWizard
        11 years ago

        That is why you need to leave them. If they have laws against it there is usually a reason for it.

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  • WordWizard
    11 years ago

    You are mistaking the kind gestures as sexual attraction. He has done nothing to you from what you siad and you are making up fantisys that should not be true.He is your teacher and its stupid you want to be itimate and I find it annoying you assume all of us have done this. I for one have not so what is that saying?Get him out of your head. He is not going to have sex with you and if he deos he is in the wrong and you are foolish for wanting it.

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  • Nikkixo18
    11 years ago

    What should I do?

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    • OswaldCobblepot
      11 years ago

      Touch him on the penis.

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      • Legion
        11 years ago

        seems like she already did that, lol

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        • OswaldCobblepot
          11 years ago

          Touch him on the penis… again?

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  • Joulez
    11 years ago

    I should say its definately normal under the circumstances that feeling does not count any one. So to make it clear to you all, we all may have feeling to one and other whether its a teacher, team coach or even your cousin.

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    • Nikkixo18
      11 years ago

      Thank you I was very concerned because of this situation but I have bad news..... I'm pregnant for his baby but he doesn't know yet and neither do my parents

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