Is it normal that i have sexual urges when i see my guy friend?

hey so i am a highschool student and i have a really awesome friend, who will remain nameless. We have been friends for about six months now and we flirt all the time! he has told me that he likes me and vise versa, however he doesnt have time for a relationship. Now, whenever im around him i have this vision of him throwing me against a wall or something and making out with me! All i wanna do is kiss him and touch him when im around him and i almost suprise kissed him the other day! Its getting bad! I cant let myself succumb to my urges because he doesnt want a relationship and i dont wanna keep leading myself on. is this normal? Please help, I dont want to feel this way its too hardand i wish i could have him):

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  • scotty4444

    1st crush, huh? Couldnt be more normal. The only thing that would be abnormal is expecting him to stumble across your post and realize you are talking about him!

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    • Mastersash

      That would be awesome! Haha <33

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  • monkyyy

    maybe see if he`s interested in a friends with befits thing, considering u flirt alot
    but
    "throwing me against a wall or something and making out with me!"
    is that a normal for females?

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  • CountryRoads

    I remember how nervous those situations used to make me, too. It's easy to say "Jump him!" or "talk to him about it!", but that's really scary. Sometimes you have to ease into it. But, chances are he won't fight it. Try to get up the courage to at least hint around it; you don't want to miss out.

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  • heels

    Totally normal buddy, especially at your age. But, you claim he flirts with you also, what kind of flirting? It may be that he is nervous as well, waiting for you to make a move...Or, it might just be that he enjoys your friendship and flirting but is not really interested in going further with it....He might not want a relationship but has some curiosity and wants to experiment.
    Be very careful, you sure don't want to make an unwanted advance, be rejected, and possibly lose his friendship. I know how awful this feels.
    I would try to have a gentle talk with your buddy to figure out where he stands on this delicate issue.

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  • Duckra5521

    When I was younger I was friends with this girl for a long time, I was always physically attracted to her, but I never thought she saw me that way. I always wanted to experience her, make out with her, always wanted a friends with benefits situation with her, but even though I came close to trying many times, I didnt. Well one summer we hung out every day for like a month, and as we were hanging around one day I made a joke and she pushed me, I pushed her back and we ended up pushing against each other like football players locked and trying to pass one another. Well at that moment something in my brain snapped and I said f**k it. I moved my head down and came back up to kiss her by surprise. Well, she liked it, we made out for almost 3 hours and it was incredible. Just incredible, waiting for so long, years, then finally having it be reality. We were even closer friends after that, even though it never happened again. That was almost 4 years ago, and we're still friends, too, some friends would get awkward and move apart after that. It's just a happy memory together that both of us share along the journey of friendship. =) Point is, go for it or you'll regret it, just dont be hurt if he doesnt want it, be prepared for him to say no, then move on and keep being friends if he does say no.

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    • Noonesperfect

      ^ omg your story sounds like a movie I like it :)

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  • mumbum

    Wanting to be thrown against the wall is really normal for females. I say go with your urges. Chances are he is turned on by you too. Sounds like you could have a great sexual relationship!

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  • heyfrick

    Haha damn

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  • MochaCriola

    This is the same girl from the other story...smh obsessive much?!

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