Is it normal that i have really flaky friends?

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I have three best friends in my main friend group. (4 of us) and I constantly am feeling left out. We rarely (maybe once a month do something all together) just because school distances us... but when we are all in the same town I feel as if I am being left out. For example one of my friends last night "W" invited "K" and "M" and "M's" sister to go to the bars. I did NOT get an invite. Also "M" and "K" have been hanging out more and more alone lately.
"K" and I are the closest right now, but to be honest it always changes, and even she hasn't been asking me to hang lately.

I don't know what to do. Am I too boring for them? Do they not like me anymore, or are they just being flaky?

Yes, most of my friends can be flaky 5
Yes, everyone is slightly flaky at times 10
No, thats rude 5
No, your friends aren't true friends 10
Eh, Not sure. You're probably boring, or they don't like you 4
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  • Erik963
    11 years ago

    Dont worry, if they dont want you, they are not the type of people you want to talk with. I also doubt that they hate you, they just want to hang with each other more often, alone if possible, try to arange something yourself and instead, you should invite them.

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  • OswaldCobblepot
    11 years ago

    I got bored reading this before I finished the third sentence. Maybe you should be less boring.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    I read that as "flakey skin".

    Anyway, they don't sound like true friends. I suggest that you end what relationship you have with them now and go meet some better people.

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  • AlasEarwax
    11 years ago

    I'd like to help, but the same thing is happening to me right now :/

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Mayberry they don't like you saying they have dandruff.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Maybe ask them why they leave you out of things.

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