Is it normal that i have nothing intresting and fun to say to anyone?

Its been happening since a very long time.I just don't know what to talk about with anyone except my best friend. I find it so difficult to say anything.I don't make friends easily because of that. I even used to bore my boyfriend.Its so weird.I'm not able to crack jokes also like my friends and i'm a bit slow in understanding things though i'm good in studies. I just remain silent most of the time.I also fear talking to people on phone as i keep thinking that they are getting bored with me.I have to try so hard to start conversations. Does anyone else goes through the same?

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  • Browniegirl3

    I totally understand. It could be a self esteem issue and not accepting yourself. Spend time getting to know your interests or finding your interests. If you like cooking start looking up recipes and cooking. The more you do what you love the more you'll have to talk about. Also work on being a good listener. People love to talk about themselves. Show them that you are interested in what they have to say. Its called the law of giving. If you want people to notice you then take the time to notice them. Don't do what you want for yourself but to others. That's how you get what you want. Work on accepting all of yourself. I have the exact dilemma. I've been slowly working on accepting myself. I read a few books that will definately help you. Be Yourself, Everyone else is taken by Mike Robbins, and the 7 spiritual laws of success.(something like that) Your night going to change overnight. Just perservere through it and set small goals for yourself. Hope this helps. Good luck!

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  • suckonthis9

    Simple. Obtain a copy of the Rules . Then, simply wait until some f@#*!-up brain-dead idiot starts spewing. Also, don't forget the pending amendments to the Rules; division in society, use of -ists and -isms, use of Archaic language, etc.
    Then you will have something interesting to say.

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    • goingcrazy

      :-P

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  • Terence_the_viking

    BOOBIES?

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    • goingcrazy

      what the fuck do you mean?

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      • Terence_the_viking

        BOOBIES are interesting an fun.

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