Is it normal that i have no trust?

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I met one girl online and she is year younger than me(i am 16), we talked a little via in game chat and she told me where she lives(which is lie later on..) and that place is close to me.

Also she wants to hang out with me irl(i never seen her irl=in real life).

So i tough that other people must know her but nobody did...

That was weird and i started researching her and i found out her real address without asking anybody(so they cant know how i found it). Its a new built house(finished in 2014) and after i told her that i know that she lives there. She then told me that she moved 2 months ago(i dont belive her that cuz she has a lot of friends from place where she is now and nobody in my place knows her).

So my question is can i trust her? Should i keep researching till i found out where she spent childhood?

I cant believe her without knowing the truth about did she moved or not..(i dont believe in stuff before i find it out myself)

If i found out that she is telling the truth im just going to ignore what i said all above, if she never lived close to me im going to delete her(it makes me feel bad to connect to somebody and to care for him/her but he/she dosent want to let me know him/her).

I saw her in real life but i didnt want to say hi because i was unsure if it was she.. (saw her at bus stop)

Am i normal for doing this?

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Based on 11 votes (5 yes)
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  • Countess_Kittycat
    6 years ago

    Some people are afraid (understandably) about giving information to strangers they meet in the internet, even if they have some interest in knowing them. I would not take it to heart. On the other hand, researching too much about her is creepy. Additionally, if he was that afraid of you knowing her face because she was afraid you would think she is ugly, you might not have a crush on her, but she still might have one on you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Well now her boyfriend is jealous because she plays online game with me a lot but ignores other guys.. He started asking me lots of questions and trying to hide that he is jealous... They both are 15. Also i found out that she had never lived where she said(she didnt move at all).. Im just waiting for her to text me with something like "lets meet" and then i will tell her everything that i know and block her. i hate ppl like she

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      • Countess_Kittycat
        6 years ago

        If you hate her, you are not obliged to remain her friend. What her attitude sounds like to me is that she probably either did not want to give her real info or she really cared about you in some way and forced her story to look more appealing to you. In either case, if you like her other than that, you could also talk to her about it, ask her real motivations, offer understanding, tell her that you don't like lies and ask her not to lie again, and then forgive her and keep her as a friend. Of course, it all depends on how much you care for your relationship.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Maybe she's afraid that you're cyber stalking her.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      hmmm but why would she ask to meet but not tell me where she is from?

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        I dunno, I think could just ask her where she's from.

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  • bob7
    6 years ago

    I dont get it , you have a crush on her ? And how do you find someones address just like that

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      i dont but i cant handle someone who is near perfect to start smoking and hanging out with bad company ;c, if i say it here i may get arrested because idk if entering a modem of isp and opening a port breaks their isp laws...

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      • bob7
        6 years ago

        She probably lied because its the internet , nothing personal

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  • Hateful1
    6 years ago

    She's a catfish.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      She has instagram and she accepted me to see her. (she is hiding her face) but when i found out her face(u dont need to know how) she got mad at me and told me "call me how ever u want, i know that im ugly".. (i think that she had went thru bad time in school).

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      • Hateful1
        6 years ago

        A catfish is a term used to describe someone you meet online who lies about who they are.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          i know but she is not catfish, i had them before..

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