Is it normal that i have no standards when it comes to men??

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Well ever since my first boyfriend I have gotten use to the men in my life being either unattractive or having nothing to show for themselves. I don't know if it's me trying to upgrade them or thinking i can. Or just that i might be attracted to these guys. But after a couple weeks i get annoyed with them and then I'm gone. But i continue to date these type of guys. Is this normal?

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  • shuggy-chan
    11 years ago | pl

    Failedcasanova, I found a girl for u

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    You've been lucky so far. Indescriminate dating can leave you with a pervert or worse. Start lookin' 'em over before you get hurt.

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    • Qzz
      11 years ago

      The rich ones have nothing to hide.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Don't you believe you deserve better?

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Don't commit then.

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    This probably isn't what you want to hear but I think it would be good for you to take a break from dating entirely and start seeing a therapist about this issue before you completely ruin you life.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Unattractive doesn't mean stupid (for my fellow friends who have commented before).

    OP, you can date whoever you want!

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  • Ldizzy1234
    11 years ago

    Well, there must be something about them that has brought you in, and obviously something that has turned you away fairly quickly.

    I don't really know what to say to this, but what everyone else seems to be saying; find better. Understand that you CAN do better.

    I know I can't say what type of person you really are, but maybe you're just the type who is willing to give anyone and everyone a chance. And actually, maybe you really don't have a significant 'type'.

    Try to look back at your reasons why you flitted from the other relationships. Look deeply and try to find the exact turn offs. It might break it down for you, making it easier to find the exact opposite of those things that might've been what made you run. Also, try to see what all the guys in your past relationships had in common. That could also make it easier for you. Find the good things they had in common and the bad things as well. This could help narrow your options.

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    • exodusrev22
      11 years ago

      You actually hit it on the head. I don't really get sexually involved with them. I think it's more emotional. They have a sob story most of the time and I tend to give them my all. I don't know why but I never treat them wrong. When I become attached, for me, it becomes to much. I will leave but we always become close friends later. No bad terms.

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      • Qzz
        11 years ago

        You give your all for two weeks or so lol ? "You don't know why you don't treat them wrong" lady... You sound like a jerk who is scared to be in a relationship.

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  • swanlike
    11 years ago

    "We accept the love we think we deserve" - The Perks of Being a Wallflower

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  • lufa
    11 years ago

    you sound pretty low class yourself.

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    • MilleBornes
      11 years ago

      the best answer

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      • lufa
        11 years ago

        :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    This sort of behaviour is what's known as "slumming it".
    - Which is okay, as long as you always keep it in your mind that, what you're doing is to pass the time for what ever reasons, and that these people that you're slumming it with are temporary and should be treated as such.
    One day though, you'll find someone whose company you really do enjoy.
    This is a phase some people go through.

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  • forever_anon
    11 years ago

    I think you answered your own question with the comment about "upgrading" the men. Perhaps you like the challenge that they represent. Or maybe you have a strong desire to help people, and you express that by trying to improve your partner.

    Whatever the reason may be, I agree with the others that you can find better. Know that you are not wrong for wanting something better for yourself.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Why don't you date good looking guys then? Do they intimidate you?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Good luck with the bake sale.

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  • Fabulous
    11 years ago

    Bang me

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Girls like you are good for sexing though.

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  • exodusrev22
    11 years ago

    I do but for some reason it doesn't really hit me until after i make the commitment then i just leave them high and dry :/

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