Is it normal that i have no sex drive?

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I am a normal 22 year old man. I'm gay. I have a boyfriend who I find VERY attractive. But I just don't have a sex drive. I get erections and horny but I just don't want sex. I can't cum from any sexual activity with my boyfriend. I don't even feel the need to masturbate. I just don't feel like it. It's not that I'm too tired or too lazy, I just don't want to. Is it normal that I have virtually no sex drive at 22 years old?

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    You sound like an homoromantic asexual. It's when you're romantically attracted to the same sex but, you have no sexual attraction. I also fall into this group. There are quite a few online support groups for asexuals.

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  • imadragon
    9 years ago

    I guess you should find out why this is, maybe that is just the way you are or maybe there is a reason behind it, like stress and anxiety, depression or some medication you take that might have that side-effect. If this is a hard struggle for you, you could always see a sex therapist. I don't even know if this is helping, but yeah.

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  • weirdo912
    9 years ago

    I'm just not sure what I should do next. Is there something I can do to increase my sex drive?

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  • mscurriouus
    9 years ago

    Asexuals can get turned on. Those parts still work. They just have no desire to actually have sex with anyone.

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    It's called being asexual. If your boyfriend have a sexdrive him and you just have to find a way to make it work. Maybe you still enjoy seeing him enjoying the sex?

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    • imadragon
      9 years ago

      Actually, being asexual mean you are not sexually attracted to anyone, but you can still have a sex-drive. This guy probably just don't have a very high sex-drive or it could be something else like depression or any form of medication.

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      • (s)aint
        9 years ago

        Really? I was under the impression that you didn't had a sex-drive ... But If I'm miss-informed thanks for notifying me!

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        • imadragon
          9 years ago

          You're welcome :)

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