Is it normal that i have no relationship experience at 20?

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I'm 20, female and I've never been in a relationship. I feel like I'm getting older and I'm still single. All my friends have boyfriends or guys that are interested in them. I have nothing. Guys don't approach me or ask for my number or anything. I feel like I must be ugly then. Guys only ever stare at me or once a guy cat called but they probably do that as a joke I assume. Is this normal or am I just really ugly?

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  • modernism
    8 years ago

    That's okay. You may have guys who are interested in you and you just don't know it. Some guys may be too shy to approach you.

    It's almost guaranteed that more than one person has had a crush on you in your 20 years of living. Beauty is subjective, and there is always going to be people who think you are ugly, as well as people who think you are gorgeous. Your personality comes into play too though.

    There are many reasons why you have not had a relationship before, but it honestly doesn't matter. You're only 20. It'll happen. In the meantime, don't worry about it. :)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Thank you :) I try not to worry about it but then my friends say it's weird and there's no one else like me. It's kinda true where I live, everyone has been in multiple relationships. They seem to have no problems finding boyfriends.

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      • modernism
        8 years ago

        On a wider scale, it's not a weird at all. But have you tried approaching guys? Or flirting, etc?

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    Nothing wrong with being a black sheep.

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    • Short4Words
      8 years ago

      I don't remember this being the same question I answered last night but OP this is normal for guys AND girls. Being ugly isn't always the case. There might be something about you that people have a hard time approaching.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        8 years ago

        But what could that be? I mean looks are the first thing a person sees, not your personality?

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        • Short4Words
          8 years ago

          Looks are the first thing a person sees but not always what they remember. The girls that seem kind and genuine are much easier to remember than the girls that look pissed off or unsatisfied with their lives.

          You might also suffer from resting bitch face.

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            8 years ago

            I'm a happy person so I don't think I would be unapproachable. But I am quiet so that probably doesn't help. I don't know, I just always assumed most girls had a least one guy approach them in their lives.

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  • TrustMeImLying
    8 years ago

    You have me, OP. I've been interested in you since the day I joined this site. I'm not even joking. You're beautiful and I'll love* you forever

    *aslongasyoureanonymous

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  • Unimportant
    8 years ago

    There's probably a couple of guys interested in you whom you don't even think about and don't consider to be real guys, because they are not attractive from your perspective.

    And I know you don't want to hear this and probably won't like my comment for it, but you are 20. You are still almost a kid.

    I obviously could tell you whether I think you are ugly or not, if there was a picture of you. Without it it's hard to say why guys don't approach you. Are you often in an "approachable" position? Or do you stay at home and wait for someone to magically find you?

    Sorry if I sound mean. Bad day.

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    • Lonelyme
      8 years ago

      How could I tell if a guy is attractive or not if no guy has ever been interested in me? not any that i know about anyway. When I say guys don't approach me, I mean NONE at all. About the approachable situation, well I go out with friends. What else should I do?

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  • u8mysis
    8 years ago

    always wear clean cloths, never get a facial tattoo or wear junk as if you were homeless never pick your nose, your ass, or stick your fingers in your mouth in public. That is a number one turn off. Never go out with your hair in a short pony tail like you don't care. Never stare back if someone is staring at you. Never stand in a Conner like you owned it. smile and say good morning or evening like you mean it. Life to short to screw it up on the first try.

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