Is it normal that i have no morals?

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Hi guys. I feel like a horrible person. My mother seems to have the best morals in the world while I do not. I feel somethings are okay to do that many think are not. Lying, cheating on tests, polygamy, tax evasion, sometimes manipulating are okay. I don't know why. I really want to change. However there are some things that are good that I believe in. I really love my family, friends, I really like my girlfriend and I wouldn't cheat on her. (but for others it's okay to do) Some things I see are wrong such as racism, murder without reason, rape, etc. I do like getting my girlfriend gifts because it makes me happy and not everything I do is for personal benefit (i.e. comforting a friend) but when it comes to self-benefit such as getting a better grade or getting more money I'll see it as okay. If I can benefit from it I don't see it as anything bad, excluding things like rape and murder etc. I feel I like helping others because it makes me happy. Kind of like a mutual benefit. I don't know what's wrong with me. Is there something psychologically wrong with me? Am I a sociopath? Idk. Please help guys. Also somethings I am indifferent about until it applies to me. (say a man gets kicked out of a store for being latino but I don't , but once I get kicked out for being Asian, I care a lot)

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  • TexasToast09
    7 years ago

    I think your title question and your explanation are fairly contradictory. You seem like you are describing what a lot of people go through in their lives, but possibly less extreme for them.

    Your ideals for what is right and how you should act don't match exactly the way that you do act and it bothers you. This is normal, and the fact that you want to make your actions live up to your ideals is good.

    "I feel like a horrible person. My mother seems to have the best morals in the world while I do not."

    This speaks volumes. You might have impossibly high standards because you feel that you don't live up to the standards of someone you look up to. It's good you want to improve yourself, but make sure your goals are reachable. If it's something that bothers you so much that it becomes a problem, talk to a therapist.

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  • CreamPuffs
    7 years ago

    The fact that you really want to change and that you do feel empathy shows that you aren't a sociopath. Even though those things don't feel wrong to you, please understand that they ARE wrong. On a conscious level you should already know that, so apply that knowledge to your future actions and it'll be fine.

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  • peterrabbyt69
    7 years ago

    You are Asian so you like to suck white men off who have bigger cocks than you right?

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