Is it normal that i have no idea if i like a boy or not?

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So here is the thing. I have known this guy for a little under two months. For some reason, I like hanging out with him, despite my better judgement. He has racist jokes, likes country music (I hate), he wears his pants too low and a backwards cap (hate), he does not think love is real, but has never been in a relationship. He is immature and drinks too much. Everything about him sounds sketchy/bad, right?

Well, on the other hand, he is very fun to argue with. He has cute mannerisms, like throwing pillows at me or complimenting me--you have great eyes, "it's part of your charm," stuff that just throws me off the douchebag scent. IT'S SO CONFUSING. When I lost my wallet and was upset, he bought me chocolate, and when I needed new windshield wipers, he bought them with me and put them on.

So he has his moments. Anyway: he just texted me and essentially told me that we were going to have a nice dinner and see a movie, and that I have no choice in the matter. So he didn't ask, he told me. First thought: douche. Second thought: at least he is acting confidently. Third thought: is this even a date?

Can someone tell me if it is normal to like/hate this guy all at the same time? And is he worth getting all confused over, or should I just calm down, go on a date, and see how I feel?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    He sounds like a nice immature guy. I know that's not much help haha. It kind of sounds like he's trying to be what he thinks a guy should be like or what his friends would think he should act like or maybe that's how his friends act with girls. (With the whole 'telling' you and not 'asking' you if you wanted to go out) Sorry, I'm bad at explaining things but I think you get what I'm trying to say.

    I think he's too immature for you. That's the part you hate, and quite frankly that would annoy me too. He seems more like a friend or someone I'd go out with just for fun, not something serious or long term. I could be wrong on this but it seems like he just doesn't have enough experience with girls to know that he doesn't have to put up a macho act to impress them.

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  • fartonmyface
    11 years ago

    He sounds like a boss.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    To me it sounds like you want to like him, but can't lol "I REALLY want to completely like this guy, but he makes it so hard" :P The decisions up to you, but that's where your confusion lies.

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