Is it normal that i have never kissed someone at the age of 18?

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Well, I'm 18 and I have never kiss someone, not even been close. I've never been interested in having a boyfriend, because I feel happy withouth a boyfriend. What it's more, I'm not interested in sex or that kind of relationships very much. I don't considerer myself asexual because I would like to have a boyfriend in a future, but not yet. What happens is that I haven't met the right person yet, I have liked a little some boys, but I have never fallen in love. Besides, in my entire life only a boy has asked me for a date, when I was 15, and I turn him down because I barely knew him. I think that he's the only boy who has ever had a crush on me, at least the only one about I'm aware. I don't know what it's wrong about me, I mean, I know that obviously I'm not gorgeous, but there are girls who are much more uglier and more annoying than me and they have had a lot of boyfriends. I mean, it's ok, because I don't want a bunch of boys chasing me, but I don't know, I think that they see me more like a friend.

I have quite friends and I like hanging out on weekends, but I rarely go to discos or drinking, I don't like it. Of course, I know that people can meet their crushes everywhere, but they are likely to find them on discos and that stuff.

To put it in a few words, I'm happy and usually I'm not worried about this topic. It's natural for me: I have never chase nobody, and I feel happy single. Besides, I had never had the opportunity to kiss someone, except for that boy when I was 15. But sometimes I think about this and I come to the conclusion that it's not normal at all: appart from me, one of my best friends is in my same situation and she's 18 too, and other friend, who is 19 now, had her first kiss last year. I'm not super worried about it, but I don't like how people react when I tell them, they don't believe it...

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Seeems a little unusual but if your happy why worry about it?

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  • WhiteWidow
    7 years ago

    Whatever makes you happy, you go for it!

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  • mewtoo
    7 years ago

    It's normal.

    If you are happy right now, then continue to do what you're doing and let things happen as they will.

    If you aren't happy and want to have more experiences, don't be afraid to put yourself out there. You don't have to meet a guy at the disco. You can meet people anywhere! If there is someone you are attracted to, sometimes a smile is all it takes. You can introduce yourself and say, "I never do this but I feel like I would like to get to know you better. Want to go out sometime?" The worst that can happen is he will say no. And that's ok! There's are literally billions of people in the world...they won't all like you, but some will!

    It's great that you're happy single. A lot of people are not that comfortable with themselves. Try not to worry and just enjoy life. :)

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