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I lost my virginity right when I turned 18 and since then I've had a few long term hookups, but never anything official. I've never really wanted anything more than just to fool around. I feel like people may find it weird that I'm 20 and have absolutely no experience being someone's girlfriend.
If all you want to do is full around make sure the other person knows that. One of them might get attached and actually want to date you. So dont lead anyone on if its just sex you want.
It's normal. I'm 23 years old, never dated, never been in a relationship and I'm still a virgin even now. I definitely do yearn for a relationship and to be intimate with someone but I'm willing to be patient about it.
I used to get down on myself because there are people around me who are younger then I am who've lost their virginity and been through several relationships. Even though I'm starting " late ", I'm glad I did. Now that I'm a little older, more knowledgable and mature I can make a more well-informed decision when it comes to choosing a potential partner.
It is always better to do something right, then to do something fast.
it's cool to know i'm not the only one waiting as well, i'm 18 and never had bf either, still have v plates as well. Just not ready for relationship, not sure when either.
I'm glad you're willing to wait. You're doing the smart thing and you definitely want to make a good decision when choosing the first person to commit yourself in a relationship with. That person is going to have a profound long-lasting effect on you and that can be good or bad.
If you never wanted a boyfriend then of course it's normal to have never had one. Some people don't like commitment, especially people who are 20 years old.