Is it normal that i have never had a serious relationship?

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I've never really wanted one either.

It's just so much of a stressful thing for me. I feel like im tied down to one person.
I had a "boyfriend" last summer, but it never turned into anything. It was a long distance relationship, and every time the phone would ring, I'd hate to even see who it was because i was scared if i talked to him on the phone, i'd freeze up and not talk, or say something stupid. So i ended it after 2 weeks. That's the longest relationship i've ever had. I've never even kissed a boy.

This is why i can't see myself getting married. I honestly don't want to. What if i marry the wrong person? I'd rather just stay single my whole life.

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Based on 32 votes (26 yes)
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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago

    Dont have one thier so not worth it
    trust me and all relationship sooner or not get
    boring and uneventful its a piontless venture

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Screw opening up, maybe you're like me and just have anti-social tendencies...

    I hate when guys constantly message me or text me or call me. It irks the living shit out of me. And trust me, I'm not a debbie downer, it's just DOWN right annoying to me. Someone always being there is kind of a drag to me. I feel caged.

    When I was younger, whenever I would kiss a guy for the first time I would go out of my way to avoid him. This lasted well into high school. Maybe you're a late bloomer like me in the social department. lol.

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  • hornygirl<3
    12 years ago

    ur gonna b a single broad with NO ONE, and u will b a virgin, if u dont buck up soon

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Lol it's normal. Not everyone wants someone. I prefer to be single too. And I feel the same when the phone rings ;) it's just, it feels like a chore. Maybe we just haven't found someone we actually liked yet ;)

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  • UliNalaMansae
    12 years ago

    simple. up to you. why should you even care if its normal? your choice, but of course theres somthing deeper there so you do wa you want.

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  • justaname
    12 years ago

    Sounds like you are really just scared, agree with the first poster, you need to open up. Yes there is a chance you may get hurt or things will be complicated however when you find the right one, the person you know you are ment to be with. It will all be worth it

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    you dont wanna go for serious relationships things at times get complicated.

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  • babe7575
    12 years ago

    same here. i have anti-social tendencies. i think its normal.

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  • Nitastar
    12 years ago

    I think you're just scared, you have to open to people girl!

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