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I am 22 and I have never had a guy ask for my number before. Does this mean I am unattractive? No, I am not fat. In fact, I am thin and in good shape. Whenever I go out in public, I have never had a guy ask for my number. Sometimes, I might get checked out but never asked can I have your number.
Don’t worry about it too much. Maybe you’re a beautiful girl and guys are intimidated or feel you are already taken. Now this goes back to my days when I was super shy and never took a chance on asking a girl for her number.. nowadays, it’s much easier, though the fear of rejection is still there at times. I always believed it’s better to take a chance in knowing where you may stand with someone of the opposite sex as opposed to pondering the thought of “what if?”... If they’re intimidated by you, chances are they won’t ask. A lot of females I know who are beautiful and know it strike up conversations first to put a guy at ease. Try a simple smile or a mini convo. Guys love it and we always love to chase the ones we think we can’t have lol best place to try it out is at a gym where it’s pretty co Ed.. Good luck :)
My sister was a model, and even ran a small modeling agency of her own, and she didn't get hit on a lot. My sister has RBF: resting bitch face;the struggle is real.
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Please point out which clause of the Rules of the Universe states that all reasonably attractive women are entitled to be approached by at least one man and asked for their telephone number by the time they are 22 years old.
In all my years (which total nearly three times yours), I never once asked a woman for her phone number. Like DeeJay, the possibility of being told to piss off always weighed much heavier than the possibility of getting a positive response. If a woman wasn't very obviously interested in me, I just could not be bothered to go through the whole tedious mating ritual
If I was your age now and wanted to get to know a woman better, I'd be even more wary, since I'd assume that not only would I be told to piss off, an accusation of sexual harassment would be lobbed my way.
The fact you haven't been asked for your number simply means that none of the men in the the subset of men you have encountered have felt like asking you for your number. It doesn't prove you're ugly or unappealing in some subtle way. It doesn't prove you encounter only men who are pathetically shy losers.
Do you have any male friends whose judgement and honesty you respect? If so, maybe you could ask them why you're never approached?
In any case, what's this really about? Are you craving validation by strangers, or do you just want to have a man in your life?
If the latter, those cosmic rules don't prohibit you from striking up a conversation with an unknown guy who you find attractive and intriguing.