Is it normal that i have never been interested in having a bf?

so I'm 21 & I've never had a boyfriend. it's because i truly am not interested in having one. im pretty independent & need a lot of freedom, so i may be somewhat afraid of commitment. im not a virgin or anything, just a relationship virgin i guess. hahaha.

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81% Normal
Based on 21 votes (17 yes)
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Comments ( 9 )
  • NathanScot

    Hehe its completely normal.Matters of the heart can never be rushed, or so i hear.I like your openess OP.Its refreshing.Would you mind sending me a photo or two....

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    • abnormalalien

      hmm.. I'll think about it.

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  • thegypsysailor

    When I see or hear the word freedom, I think of travel, open spaces and adventures galore. It takes a very special person to be a partner to someone like me.
    Perhaps it is just as difficult to find your perfect partner. I waited 19 years between my second wife and the woman I'm with now, because I wasn't interested in settling for anyone less than I needed.
    Be patient.

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  • Holzman_67

    See in my country, a bf is an acronym used on event posters for booking fee.
    So I read this title as "I've never been interested in having a booking fee" and voted normal straight away.

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  • CanadianCowboy

    Same here but vice versa

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  • BigScaryRooster

    You're still young. You have plenty of time. Focus on other things until you're ready.

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  • Shrunk

    Yep

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  • neonclam

    Couples tend to brainwash each other. Pretty soon you can't tell them apart.

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    • thegypsysailor

      Sounds like you have a lot of relationship experience.

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