Is it normal that i have never been in a real relationship

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heyo... so i have yet to be in a real relationship. I am 20 now, and pretty much all my friends have had a taste in the relationship fantasy, and to me i feel is unnecessary, and makes me want to gag. I'm not saying that I never want to be in a relationship, because I do one day. The only problem is at the moment, and also throughout my life I have been very content with not being in a relationship, and plus i have also yet to find someone that gives me those butterflies so to speak. I'm not a virgin, and i have been kissed plenty of times, but it just ends up where those guys will blow up my phone, and I want nothing to do with that. I have came to the conclusion that I am just odd, and like to be by myself, and really don't find any need for someone else to love me. oh and this kid just asked me on a date today, and i told him yes, because he seems nice, but i know that i will probably want nothing to do with him within the couple days after the date. That is just terrible I know, but I don't know what is wrong with me. i also hate that mushy love shit being romanticized.
I think i need to seek some help on the matter... what is your opinion?

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    I say highschool is meant to have one week "relationships" not real ones. So it's very normal that you don't want a real relationship at your age. It's better not to because they won't last long.

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  • brighteyesmck
    13 years ago

    I'm glad to hear a good response, and pretty wise answers. I can say though that people are nagging me, and questioning me all the time asking me if I have a boyfriend. My answer to all of them of course is no; I have yet to find the right person. Hence their question with my response to them is always why, and i don't understand, and that sums it up.It is getting to the point where with all their opinions, and questions I get so aggravated, and feel that I should just be alone forever.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    Why do you think it's necessary to be in a relationship? If you don't want to be in one, there's no problem with that. If you later change your mind and want to be in one in the future, there's no problem there either.

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  • supaflyafro
    13 years ago

    long term relationships are a lot easier when ur passed ur 20s becuz at a young age ppl still wanna experience life more and u should slow down. its ok to be in a relationship and chances r ur gonna get a few ex's but its up to u. no1's forcing u to so do what u want

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  • kaoginda
    13 years ago

    It's ok. & normal. "real committed long term" relationships aren't all that. When it happens it'll happen. You're only 20 don't sweat it ;)

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