Is it normal that i have lost my sex drive at 23?

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I've always considered myself a sexual person. Since my teenage years, I've always known my likes and my dislikes and lost my virginity at the age of 17. Nothing drastic every occurred to me in my youth and my sex drive seemed to only increase.

A year back, I began to notice how things drastically began to change. I began a relationship with someone new and noticed that I would always find an excuse to not engage sexually. This later escalated to the point to where I would have to stop in the midst of the act because I suddenly just "lost" the drive or urge. This has continued to haunt me and has definitely placed a toll in my relationship.

I've gone from being a person who enjoyed foreplay and could go on for hours to pre-ejaculating and even feeling discomfort from the slightest of touch.

I love my boyfriend with all my heart but am so lost as to what is happening with my body? Has anyone gone through something similar? Help!

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    This sounds like a physical problem and could probably be easily cured by a doctor. Your body may not be producing certain hormones or other important (to sex) chemicals.
    I'd make an appointment with a doctor and go from there. Good luck.

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  • Poes
    8 years ago

    It is definitely your hormones, go and see your Doctor!

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  • Qwertyzxc
    8 years ago

    Depression, or anti depressants?

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  • brosapien
    9 years ago

    I'd imagine that you're not physically attracted to her instead of the lack of sex chemicals thegypsysailor was talking about.

    It could be depression or any number of conditions too.

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  • mattman123
    9 years ago

    I feel for u I'm 23 and amin the same boat

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