Is it normal that i have lost hope in finding a good guy?

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I have been feeling lately that all guys today are just in it for sex, and don't respect women or value them for their character.I guess you could say that I've lost hope that there are still gentlemen out there, still guys who treat women right and who are genuine, honest, fun, and caring and just are gentlemen. I'm not trying to generalize against all of you guys, in fact I hope you prove me wrong! Are there still good, gentlemanly guys out there?

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    Well, there's always me. I lost my penis in a freak yachting accident so now I just enjoy flower-arranging, cuddles, and skipping through forests giggling.

    That is until you're lulled into a false sense of security and I tell you my penis grew back (and twice as big as before; it's now two inches).

    On reflection, no, there are no good men. Or there are no good dappleds, at any rate. Just one very bad one.

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  • ACynic
    11 years ago

    By nature I am a kind and giving person but women tend to play with nice men that want a serious relationship and are caring and loving. First they treat us like crap, then they rob us of our personality. With our personality gone and our soul crippled we turn into vengeful demons. This sort of makes me not want to have a relationship at all. I never could put up with a women's crap anyways. I always have to put them in their place and when I take off they try crawling back but I am not having any more of that.

    Women are such users. Get a dog, subscription for porn and a 54" tv.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Its not just women being good or bad, or just users. There are bad people in both sexes, just like in all races as well.

    It just sometimes takes a long time to find the right one, if at all. Your life isnt incomplete if you dont get married or have kids either, no matter what your sex is. There seems to be enormous amounts of pressure on both sexes these days to do that.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Oh, I have a cure. It's called the friendzone. No doubt a lot of nice guys are in there because they didn't meet your requirments physically, and you didn't give them the time of day.

    Don't blame everyone else for you choosing this.

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  • Francophile22
    11 years ago

    We are out there but generally invisible because we are not bad.

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  • Falcon120367
    11 years ago

    Just so you know, there are women out there who don't take care of their men. Imagine having met a woman and having had sex five times a day until marriage. Once he says I do she says I don't and sex ends there. The man stays married to her with no relief for his growing (and shrinking) problem. He still remains faithful throughout! That's me and the story is the truth. I promise, if you don't say no you can't lose! Great luck and God Bless You!

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    I never had this problem. Most of the guys who asked me out were very good gentlemen in every way. They were nice, good, and knew how to treat a lady. I don't know if that's just the kind of guys I attract but I never seem to pick up any asshole men.

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    • woman1986
      11 years ago

      Jeez thanx for your comment that is going to make her feel great about herself.

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    • Falcon120367
      11 years ago

      Congradulations KeddersPrincess. Sorry to say this but not all men are created equal. Nor do all men care. If you have been satisfied by all of your men, sorry bu maybe you expectations for perfection are really low OR you just stopped caring about the real thing.

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      • KeddersPrincess
        11 years ago

        I've never had a boyfriend, nor have I ever been romantically interested in the guys who like me. I just happen to attract nice guys.

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago

    If I were you, I wouldn´t lose hope. There are some men who might make you happy and meet your expectations. Check for example this link: www.asexuality.org

    I hope it may help.

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago

    Don´t lose your hope, there are some men who may be right for you. Check this link:
    http://www.asexuality.org/home/
    Hope it helps.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    depends on how old you are

    i mean hell i never found my love until i was in my mid 30s.

    sometimes it takes a while to find the right person

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    They are out there. Not all men suck and not all women are blood sucking skanks.

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