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My own Mom treats me like a piece of shit so you can imagine how I get treated by the broader community. So if my life is shit and I can't do anything about it, then I give up, fuck it, I hate everyone and I think everything is stupid. I give up. Why should I think otherwise?
When the time is right, move out, become a success, and then tell your haters to suck it.
It's so much easier to give up, but if your fight it the reward is that much better.
You can either let them win, or you can prove them wrong. In other words, you can either be a pussy, or you can become a man.
I really want to know why some people on here are so mean! Ur at a time in ur life that is hard. Being strong and keeping ur head high is hard to do when ur life forces u runnin in the other direction to hide. It will get better, I've been in a similar situation. If u want someone to talk to, I am here. Message me, I'll answer, promise. Everyone needs to feel loved, feel someone cares. I won't even talk about this if u don't want to. Just someone to talk to about whatever u want. Please do contact me. Keep holding on.
Don't give up, just give less fucks. That's the theme of my life right now and it seems to be working. Just keep your goals and fuck all the bullshit.
Just go to the store and buy a whole ton of candy. Then you'll be a little happier at least! Best wishes :)
Don't say that. I used to feel that way when I was young too. Eventually what I did was "divorce" her (and my dad too). I mean, emotionally. I came to a point in which their words were not any different from those of a stranger. I pictured like a tree inside my brain with lots and lots of roots tied to every attachment I could ever feel for them, and I pictured tearing them apart to the point in which my parents would just be people who lived with me, but who's opinions no longer mattered. I came to expect nothing from them and to not see myself through their eyes. Trust me, it can be done, and it helps. What your parents do is not a determining factor of what you do with your life.
It's normal. I think every person at some point in his life goes through this.
I didnt say it doesnt affect your life, but it's doesnt determinate the value you have.
The can think you are useless, shit, and a lot of things, but if you dont think you are you have to be brave enough to make them see :3
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Your own value is not determinated by what other people may think about you...
What other people think about you effects your life because you have to interact with people everyday.
It's to simple to think that what other people think of you should not effect you.
Depends on the person. If you are in a business relationship with the person or need a recommendation or something, then yeah, it matters a lot what they think about you. But when it comes to randoms, or people who have no effect on your life, it should NEVER matter what they think of you, it only matters what you think of yourself, and if you are happy with yourself, you will find others who are happy with you too.