Is it normal that i have gay feelings at the age of 11?

I've never been quite like the other kids. I'm a boy, and when I was little, I would put a dish towel on my head and pretend that it was hair. I act a bit feminine. I enjoy dancing and the arts, and I loathe sports. Lately, I've started to develop an interest in members of the same sex. I'll be walking along, a hot college guy will walk by, and I'll think, "Wow, that guy is hot!" I also often fantasize about guys and masturbate to them. I don't know if I'm gay, or if it's just a phase. Any advice?

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  • bleach_baby

    You might be. It might just be a phase. You might be bisexual. I wouldn't worry yourself by trying to label your sexuality at such a young age, sexuality is a spectrum and you're far too young to decide where you fall on it yet.

    In other news...IIN that at 11 you spell and write better than most adults on IIN?

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    • izakthegoomba

      That last bit made my day.

      :D

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  • chuy

    You my friend are gay, enbrace it and live your live happily.

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  • Legion

    well, do you have a lot of the same thoughts to girls, or are you more attracted to guys? its not that big of an issue either way, just be yourself and If you like someone, whether girl or guy, go for it, also, maybe try things with both girls and guys, but if you aren't comfortable with something, then stop and try something else. also, don't try very hard to categorize yourself, cause sexuality isn't black and white. you should be able to figure yourself out in time

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  • Avant-Garde

    You could be gay or bisexual. It's normal to have feelings for the same sex.

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  • Allistalla

    If you are gay yes . I hit puberty at 11 too so thats when I started having sex thoughts .

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  • Iwannasd

    Yeah, you sound gay, but you might be bi. You're only 11 though, so it might just be a phase. Anyway, I am very proud of your grammar. You are much smarter than half the population of the Internet.

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