Is it normal that i have forgotten how to kiss?

Most people generally kiss with tongue, but I am unsure if I like it. I have been in relationships where the kissing was really bad and it turned me off. Now whenever someone wants to kiss me i get really anxious because I know that it will be with tongue. I have kissed people with no tongue before and they kept asking when they were going to get a real kiss. I don't see why kissing without tongue doesn't count. Its not just a peck either. You can still make out passionately with just lips. I just feel that its nicer. Just a preference I guess. But the next time someone kisses me I will feel like a fool not knowing what to do. There are people that like me and I also like them but I am kind of avoiding it now and I feel like an idiot. I am afraid I will try it and I will be really bad since I haven't done it for so long now. I am 19 by the way.

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  • fucksleep

    i hate kissing with tongues now too :c mebe little licks but thats like it D:

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  • kelili

    I remember a time when I was about sixteen and I had a boyfriend named Francois and on our first kiss he put his tongue in my mouth. I was, "OMG what do I do with it??????????". I was disgusted because it was as if someone has out some raw meat in my mouth. We broke after that but he didn't know that it was because of the kiss. Now I know that kissing with the tongue is not about putting your tongue in somebody's mouth and finish but more like a sort of play - lick the lips, suck the tongue, touch the other's tongue etc..

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  • bluemeanies

    You're fine. Some people don't go for it. Some cultures don't go for it.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    You can forget everything if you don't practive

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