Is it normal that i have complete melt downs with my family and bf?

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Everyone thinks Im a total sweetheart.

I hate and feel uncomfortable during confrontations whether they involve me or not.

I am known for being a calm, mellow person.

However, I am so passive aggressive.. I have opinions, I get offended, I get mad and say nothing and try to act cool about everything.

When I have reached a certain limit I lash out and I do and say really stupid immature things but only to my family or boyfriend, but there may or may not be an audience..!!

I know Im not older, but Im 22 and Im having childish embarassing fits in public/at home/in front of people/alone wherever its like I dont care for whatever reason.. even at work!! (me and my boyfriend work together at a restaurant),

afterwards I feel so guilty and sooo embarassed, but no matter what I do or however many times I say to myself "I wont ever do that again!!!" I do it ANYWAYS...

Its like I cant even control myself..

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I don't think it's normal, but it's understandable. It may just be that you're wound up easily, or have temper issues. If you care a lot for your family and boyfriend, then it won't usually blow out of proportion. I think you need to talk to them about it, because the worst solution is to let it slide and to distance yourself, because it will happen again and again.
    I hope this helped a little.

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