Is it normal that i have become obsessed with my friend because he doe

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So my friend is the most amazing guy! We have so much in common and i really like him, ALOT! I havent known him for long just about six months. he is the only guy that i have truely liked throughout all of highschool and i want him soo bad! he has told me several time that he likes me and everything would be perfect, but heres the catch, he says he is too busy and high school relationshipd never work out): what the heck!?! yeah he is really busy but he wont even give us a shot! I should just give up on him right? move on? but i cant0: I want him so bad and i feel likei have become obsessive! he didnt want me as his girlfriend so why am i all over him!? i cant have him!!!! I text him all the time, he texts me too but i can tell he gets annoyed sometimes, we hang out alot, but i just feel like im being obsessive! Why do i want him so bad, he doesnt even want me):

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  • yomorris
    13 years ago

    Agreed ^^ give him space

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  • blah4567
    13 years ago

    HE is right that high school relationships NEVER turn out or last more then a few months realistically. So agreed with stealinsugars as well tho - back off, take your time, go slower, remember to make sure you keep lookin good xD, stay back but make yourself hard to get and desirable.

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  • stealinsugars
    13 years ago

    Like the above posters said, back off a bit. You might be surprised how attractive you become if your suddenly unavailable. I don't mean use some other guy to make him jealous either. Instead of jumping at every chance to talk to him, be a little standoffish. If he texts you, take your time replying. Being underfoot and at his beck and call will make you less attractive.

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  • bigguy2010
    13 years ago

    Back off a bit. It sounds like you're coming on a bit too strong. Some men (not all) prefer that which is difficult to get. Yes, this can apply to more than women. Could this guy fall into this category?

    Best Wishes

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  • Lucyg123swag
    11 years ago

    Let him breathe make him come after you

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  • NeonLighterz
    11 years ago

    You know this is 18+ right? You sound like you're like 15. But anyways, give him space let him run to you.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Make sure when you text him it's for a reason. Guys can't stand the innocuous ramblings of 'Hi, how are you?' 'What r you doing?' etc. They just think - go away I'm too busy!

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  • Vampgirl
    12 years ago

    You want him cause you can't have him right now! Here's what you do: start ignoring him that will make him chase after you! I know its going to be difficult to do this but you are coming on too strong and needy...guys don't like this! Go on google and search for "How to make someone want you by ignoring him" they give lots of tips on what you should do and how. Trust me it works I tried it and it worked for me, as soon as it looks as if you loose interest in them it makes them wonder and they come chasing after you! Please do this and also let me know your progress...Good Luck girl!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    If you want this guy so bad you need to leave school one afternoon with him. And find a quite spot on the way home take his hand and put it up your skirt. Make sure your not wearing any underwear though. Get him to start fingering you then move in for the kill unzip his fly, grab his cock and start to suck. Once his cocks hard bend over and slide it in your wet pussy... Next thing you know he's yours!

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  • almostunreadable
    13 years ago

    Try to google "limerence", I think you might be limerent and thus suffering greatly.

    It's normal but unhealthy.

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  • stealinsugars
    13 years ago

    That should have read if you're unavailable. Oops.

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  • asura
    13 years ago

    Wow!!

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