Is it normal that i have an extreme attraction to men with long hair?

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I think I was about thirteen when this started happening, but I have had such a strong attraction to boys who have hair at least under their ears. I cannot explain why I feel this way or what about hair makes me so crazy. I've dated guys with short hair but I just couldn't feel nearly as much sexual attraction to them to when I was with guys with longer hair. I feel like I'm alone on this sometimes

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  • waterbaby
    12 years ago

    I LOVE LONG HAIRED GUYS. I wish my bf would grow his out. I even beg my brother to (I'm not sexually attracted to my brother, he just has great hair)

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  • texas57
    12 years ago

    I think it's normal, I'm a guy with 11" inch long hair and I get alot! Of compliments from girls on it. (no I'm not gay or look like a girl you stereotypes)

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    • MnMxx
      12 years ago

      you should keep growing it :]]

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  • sabrinaxo
    12 years ago

    Trust me. Your not alone! Guys with long hair are very attractive. That's one of the things i check out when i see a guy!

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  • vSlay3r
    12 years ago

    I dont know what these stereotypical assholes have been sniffing lately but I can tell u this
    I am a male (sometimes agresive)
    I am not gay
    I am not a girl nor do I resemble one
    I have a dick
    I am not a musician nor an I very talented in music
    I am not a douchebag
    I am not fru fru, I couldn't care less is I got dirty or cut
    I am not goth or emo
    I am not running out of things to write
    I am not anti-social
    I do have better things to do then look up porn or play skyrim
    I do not style or plat my hair
    I am not deciding on wether to post this or not
    And I am not going to judge anyone for how they look, and you shouldn't either

    Believe it or not all of these are comments that I have received over the past month
    What does this prove,that I know a lot of douches
    Stop judging people on how they keep there hair

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  • bassjetter
    12 years ago

    oooh yes! i am a rocker. my teen years i was attracted to guys with long hair. we are talking the 80s hair bands.
    my bf is also a musician and he used to have long hair in his days..(he is older than me). when i saw pictures of him from back then..i go crazy he was HOT!! he still is of course to me!

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  • Gardenia
    12 years ago

    Mmhm:) I love my dude with long hair!

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  • VsegdaTemnata
    12 years ago

    Everyone has a preference. Long hair frames the face very beautifully and simply looks much more attractive than short.

    Everyone saying that long hair is gay or dirty can fuck themselves.

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  • TurboDiesel
    12 years ago

    Nope, it's not normal by any means, but just a little weird. Quite frankly, being attracted to people with long or short hair is nothing more than a personal preference. To each their own on this topic.

    Perhaps you are just a closet lesbian? LOL

    Honestly though, who knows & who cares? Not me.

    You might like me... sometimes I let my hair grow longer, usually in the wintertime. Sometimes I cut it shorter. Not a fan of buzz cuts or baldness myself, but as I age, I see that I'm going to get bald eventually whether I like it or not.

    Damn. Sure hope my wife isn't as shallow as this chick.

    Who_Fan4Life actually is quite accurate. Most guys with long hair are either unkempt (dirty/lazy) or just look like (and tend to act similarly) douchebags. Call it stereotyping or whatever you want, but it's still concluded from real life observations.

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    • VsegdaTemnata
      12 years ago

      I am so confused as to why this is the top comment when it contains stupid shit such as:

      1. "Closet lesbian" reference. So according to your logic, men who like women with shorter hair must be closet gays.

      2. The OP was called shallow. Everyone has preferences and I'm pretty sure there's something about your wife that drew you in and if given a choice, you would pick her over someone less attractive.

      3. Idiotic stereotype at the end. The majority of long-haired men I've met are talented and humble musicians who mind their own business and are polite and respectful.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Both comments are stupid stereo types. Most are neither......

        unkempt (dirty/lazy) or just look like (and tend to act similarly) douchebags

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        talented and humble musicians who mind their own business and are polite and respectful.

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        • VsegdaTemnata
          12 years ago

          Mine was not a stereotype. If you had read my comment more carefully, you would have seen that I said, "The majority of long-haired men I'VE MET are...." Keywords are "I'VE MET." Thank you.

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          • [Old Memory]
            12 years ago

            Irrelevant actually. They are both dumb stereo types, and being that the majority that you met were that certain way constitutes a stereo type....you retard. Thank you

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            • VsegdaTemnata
              12 years ago

              No, it doesn't, it constitutes my true-life experiences. I'm sorry you can't admit you're wrong. Goodbye.

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  • Who_Fan4Life
    12 years ago

    Well if you want to date guys with long hair, you might as well be dating girls.

    I find that a lot of the time, the guys with long hair fall into two categories:

    A) VERY girly looking
    B) Complete scumbags

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    • Melodeath
      12 years ago

      Well you're obviously very ignorant. I have long hair and I am in no shape or form look like a female. I am also not a scumbag. How about you get your head out of your filthy asshole and quit making stupid remarks and judgments.

      As for the person who posted this, it is completely normal. Me for example, I love girls with very long hair. Like a little past their breasts.

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      • VsegdaTemnata
        12 years ago

        I can't believe Melodeath's comment got such low ratings. What kind of ignorant motherfuckers are roaming this site? They need to be kicked out ass-first.

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      • MnMxx
        12 years ago

        Go you :D I agree with you just goes to show how many ignorant people are out there. and yay you for having long hair :]]]

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    • shuggy-chan
      12 years ago

      haha who, you troll, i think you just said that cause i have long hair lol

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    • Rusty-Rider
      8 years ago

      You are an idiot to say that.

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  • zeldaman
    11 years ago

    i have long hair im a boy if you want to call my number is 858 472 3579

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    You probably have a hair fetish like I do. There's nothing more beautiful to me, than long, bouncy, flowing hair on the head of a beautiful man. To grasp it and to smell it is the best thing in the world. Don't sweat it.

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  • SLAYERoftheWICKED
    11 years ago

    im a man with 23" long dark blonde hair,and i love it!

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  • rabbitheart4321
    12 years ago

    long hair on men is sexy. half of these comments are about men being gay or men being like women and I seriously don't know why they are judging people for their hair. Maybe they're jealous because they don't have lush hair. Jim Morrison, Jimmy Page, Robert Plant, JASON MOMOA - all sex gods with long hair <3

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  • littlemissgiggles
    12 years ago

    I'm the exact same :)

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  • imnerdy11
    12 years ago

    Rape me.

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  • MnMxx
    12 years ago

    ohhh believe me its normal, I don't like guys with short hair, or beards its SO unattractive, but man, seeing a guy with long hair, is a wicked turn on :DDD

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  • blaster
    12 years ago

    I love chicks with long hair , turns me on sooo much.Can't stand it short !

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  • OnThisEpisodeofLife
    12 years ago

    Eddie Shin

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  • Crudhouse
    12 years ago

    Completely normal, though women tend to get a little jealous if you have better hair than them.

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  • Hipster_Syndrome_Immune_Guy
    12 years ago

    You my friend, should go to a cosplay event and spew rainbows!

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