Is it normal that i have an attraction to every girl i meet

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I've never really had a friend that was a girl growing up, just people I sometimes say hi to but that's it. In fact I've only had a few friends growing up, almost all guys. Now I'm 21 years old and every girl I meet or even have some verble contact with I'm instantly attracted so much so that I block myself off from most human contact, except the guy friends I know, because I know if I meet a girl ill want to be with them and then realize that's not gonna happen then feel really depressed.

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Based on 26 votes (19 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I think you just need to blow your load more often before you go out around girls.

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    • tripw7
      10 years ago

      You have such a succinct way of saying what you mean. I like it!

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        I cum blood.

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        • StrawberryTurtle
          10 years ago

          Ewww...nasty.Oh,hi I haven't talked to you in a while.Wait, I get it,your trying to ignore me,ok ok, I'll go!

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            No.

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            • StrawberryTurtle
              10 years ago

              no,no i will leave you be.**leaves because of his other comment-but just has an excuse**

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    I can sort of see where you're coming from honestly. I guess the best you can do is treat them like your guy friends. That's what I do, and have done, in order to make myself more comfortable around girls, since most of my friends growing up were guys. Guys and girls aren't that different unless you view them differently. Honestly just try to treat them the same as your guy friends, don't view them as girls, view them as people.

    Warning: This is how I treat woman, I treat them like friends and that's where I'm comfortable at, anything more and I get uncomfortable. Whenever I meet someone who I really like, I usually get to know them first and ask them out. But since all they've seen me is as a friend it can be hard to establish a romantic relationship. So I am saying this personal anecdote in order to try to convey that if you treat someone like a friend then that's all that they're going to see you as. It's not their fault, not everyone can like you. You can't be angry at them. You shouldn't be angry at yourself either, you were being a good person, but just because you're good doesn't mean that girls deserve to like you or that they want you. Someday hopefully you'll meet someone, but before you do you might get shot down a lot. Or perhaps you might not. Either ways, I hope you find someone, but take the above advice with this warning. Please don't be a cynic.

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    • Nightling
      10 years ago

      I don't think I'm a cynic, but thanks for the advice!

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      • Anime7
        10 years ago

        I'm not saying you were. I was telling you that I hope you don't become a cynic because some girls rejected you.

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    Honestly to be attracted to every person you meet is kind of strange.

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  • LovelyMay
    10 years ago

    Same for me, except imma girly.

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  • Holzman_67
    10 years ago

    You need to work on your self esteem, your self belief. This is a confidence issue. I'm sure you have much to offer a girl you just gotta recognize your value.

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  • krisichi
    10 years ago

    That happens to me except with guys since I'm a girl. Maybe we're just feelin a little lonely?

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