Is it normal that i have absolutely no real life friends?

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Is it normal that I have absolutely no one I would consider as a friend? I am a fucked up loner.
...I like to be alone, because with the most people I feel like an extraterrestial, like I don't belong there...
So said I feel more lonely when I am surrounded by common people...

But this is not the real problem...
The real problem is, that I haven't anyone in real life who is willing to truly listen what I have to say or shares the same interests...

Surely at the internat I have some I would consider as friends, but they all live far, far away from me...
But in the end: It is sick!

One reason for this is that I am somehow socially inept... but the other part is much crappier: Here is no one who shares some same thoughts, opinions or interests with me... I am only considered as the freak who is all the time writing weird things no one does understand, the physics nerd or just the weird, hated one...

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  • cool-bean
    10 years ago

    Oh yea and I'm so looking forward to physics. Is it good?

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    • Dywiann
      10 years ago

      I don't know ^^ I am still in school but I look forward to study it. The physics at school here is pretty lame ._.
      It's sad: Physics is so awesome but school gives everyone the feel that it's the crappiest thing on earth :s xD

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  • Cheese123
    10 years ago

    It's the most normal feeling in the world. Join the Society for Creative Anachronism. It's basically a place where nerds beat each other with big wooden sticks and shield and armour and so on. It's the friendliest society around. It's a little expensive to buy all the equipment, but making friends is really easy there because there's an expectation that nerds will dominate it.

    Alternatively, pick your top five favourite things (except alone time) and then google that shit and find an organisation of people who meet weekly. You like physics? Maybe go to a physics society where people who like what you like all meet up to talk about fascinating new theories and all that.

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    • Dywiann
      10 years ago

      I can imagine that the society for creative anachronism is epic xD

      Yeah probably you are right xD I should make the physics society thing and maybe a writers club, or sureal artist club, probably astronomy club , idk :P xD
      But such things are better than being alone at home all the time haha

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  • Basiagirl98
    10 years ago

    You're not alone.
    I've lost so many friends for a lot of the same reasons... they don't like me because I'm "too smart" I used to be told all the time last year that I'm "too nice" maybe I'm "too sensitive", "too emotional" too different... all I think is whatever. I'm not dumming myself down for anyone and I'm not gonna stop my self in life to let them catch up so they like me or whatever.
    I'd rather have no real friends and succeed in life than have a whole shitload of fake ones like I used to.

    I'm done conforming, take me as I am or get the hell out of my way!

    I used to be the pretty, popular, soccer player, but you know what? I hated that! I was empty and depressed inside but now, now I'm free and liberated and and maybe I'm the nerdy, quiet sciency type too, but at least I've got what a lot of other's don't... passion and dignity.

    Hey, if you're "socially inept", then I must be too because I'd rather be myself than the girl everyone else wants.
    P.s. if you wanna talk msg me, we can talk about science lol jk but if you want to talk, I'm here!

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    • Dywiann
      10 years ago

      Yeah I also hate fake friends^^ I understand what you mean perfectly... I do it the same way...

      ...People often think I am damn cold or, if they begin to know me, they say that i am very sensitive too...

      ...It is crappy to be loved for something you are not... It is even better to be hated for what I truly am...

      ...anywhere could be someone who like your true self lol ^^
      And yeah, science for the win! :P

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      • Basiagirl98
        10 years ago

        haha thanks for replying! :P (:

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  • Paradiddle
    10 years ago

    Sure its normal, for example, if I asked a random person if they've ever watched Bleach, they would give me a weird look and question why I'd want to do that. Its not like a majority of people will think or know of anime and that probably applies to your interests. That is why MMOs, anime conventions and game tournaments would yield the best results for me as the people who participate in those already share my interests and are easier to talk to. Most people annoy me with talks about some "reality" TV drama show or sports aside from tennis, I'm not into popular music at all nor most celebrities. What "am" I interested in though? Drawing, anime, video games, percussion and piano, half of which I cannot and will not expect the average person to be into in a common setting. People on a whole just don't mesh well with what isn't the norm.

    Chin up though! I bet your skills isn't something the average person can do and many things we use all the time wouldn't be possible without people who specialize in those fields. Being unique is a lot more respectable than someone who was copy and pasted from social norms.

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