Is it normal that i have a lot of sex partners?

I had more sex partners that I can count (probably about 21 and I'm only 27!!). I usually have sex with a lot of women because I feel so empty inside and that's my way of filling it up. I'm not sure if it's normal to have a lot of sex partners. Is it?

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55% Normal
Based on 132 votes (73 yes)
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  • dymanicsystems

    dude i have thesame problem i seen to knowhow to pick chicks for 1 night standsmine started after my ex nd i broke up

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  • JackKass

    It depends on WHY you're having sex with all these people, but I think you answered the question yourself. You said you feel empty and it's your way of filling the void. I got news, you'll never fill the void that way and you'll just create more faceless, desensitized sexual acts. That in turn will make you feel even worse down the line, when you realize you have nothing to show for all the women you've been spending time with. It's common for each of us to "medicate" ourselves with something when we are unhappy about something. Some drink, some over eat, some gamble, some use drugs. Others use sex.
    Find out what's making you unhappy and confront it. What do you really need? On an additional note, you might be seeing women who could be loving, caring lifetime partners, and right now, you're probably not in the position to recognize that so they might be getting "thrown away."
    Consensual adult sex is fine. But this sounds empty to you. If you keep feeling empty, stop hurting them and you. Talk to someone about this.

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  • Gidget

    ive had more than that n am only 19 i got friends who have a way higher number no biggey unless u feel bad

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  • oogliebooglie

    You obviously want affection and are trying to get it through sex. which is probably why you're feeling so empty. meaningless sex won't fill that gap. You don't have to stop having sex or anything like that. But try spending time with loved ones more often. Or find a steady gf that you care about. If you have a good loving gf that you care about and you still feel empty and have the need for many sexual partners you have a problem.

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  • I think if you hit 50 by the time you're thirty, then you should maybe get some help (psychological help).

    It's been my experience in life; that people who have slept with more than that, who are still in their twenties, are really F'd-up people. Especially when it comes to parts of their lives that don't include sex.

    But if you want more, and you can actually handle it, and you're not hurting anyone else in the process, then do whatever floats your boat. :-)

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  • Stefano

    I guess it is not that I'm empty but rather full of everything. I have my own house, car, job, I come from a wealthy family so early on I had anything I wanted at my disposal. The thing is, when I want something (material) I get it, but if it's a girl I go for the challenge, the adventure, a girl is not so easy, you can't just buy them (hehe I don't use prostitutes). So that's why I have a lot of partners I would say, because I get satisfaction from getting things otherwise my money can't buy. I'm a heartless romantic (pun?).

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  • alexisfreak

    I have had sex about 10 times in my life with different people. It's normal. Do a wh*re here, f*ck a b*tch here. It is fine, especially if you get oral.

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  • orlybro

    It's normal. Just know what you're doing and protect yourself. Be aware not all protection can protect you 100 percent.

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  • Lysette

    I hope so. I have had about 40-50 different sex partners per year for since I was 18 or 15 years ago. And that doesn't include my husband.

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  • dannyboy121

    well9if you protect yourself and live good in this situation go 4 it dude and do lot of facial

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    • Stefano

      Lol Thanks, so I guess it's normal.

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      • la_uva_mojada

        no it's not normal

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  • spidercrowblaze18762

    I usually only fuck my girlfriend, but when we want a change she even calls 6 or 7 of her female friends, and i fuck all the chicks together.

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  • BOYracer88

    haaah! ive had more than you and im 21

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  • SALMAN

    i had 30 sex partners because my girlfriend tells her friend to come over and then she tells me that will you have sex with me and my friend at the same time and most of her friends are vergins. i even got one of the girl pregnant but she had an abortion

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