Is it normal that i have a long distance relationship?

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I've met a guy online and have been speaking to him for 6 months now. I really have strong feelings for him and so he says he also feels the same. Sometimes i think if it is the right thing and if I can actually trust him. But i let my feelings take over control and cant think ethically at times. He seems really different to any other guy i've spoken to but he also has a split personality. Im going overseas to meet him in person in about 2 weeks but im not sure what im going to come across,we have seen each other on webcam and speak on the phone constantly but i dont know if thats enough to fall in love with someone far away. Is it really possible to be in love with someone i've never seen or touched before? Sometimes it confuses me. But i really do love him and hope it works out when we meet face to face. I need some advice on how to act about this whole situation!

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  • Cheese123
    10 years ago

    Man, sounds dangerous meeting a guy in a foreign country who has a personality disorder

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  • bettyboop
    12 years ago

    Well we have Skyped a couple of times. And in regards to his split personality, when his in a good mood his like an angel and when in a bad mood i dont even know who he is. When we argue he trys to end the relationship saying that i deserve better but when i do let go of him he starts to talk about how i dont love him and if i did i wouldbt agree to break up. He confuses me alot in this sense.

    Im going overseas just to meet him but i also have family living overseas so if things dont work out i'll be spending time with family.

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  • equanimity
    12 years ago

    Tell us more about his "split personality".

    Maybe you could Skype him, that would sort of be like meeting him and might give you a better idea of what he looks like and what his mannerisms are.

    Even if you meet him in person, you still may not know him fully. That part is all about trust, not distance.

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