Is it normal that i have a hard time being private sometimes?

It's got a lot better in the past 6 months, but I've always had a problem with keeping things to myself or just between me & one other person. Like, for example, when my ex boyfriend & I broke up, I was so happy to be down with it! I had started to hook up with this other guy who I really liked & he really liked me. Well, after we did the deed & keep in mind too that I was a total party girl so I was pretty much drinking every other day & was a LOUD MOUTH! Well, after we hooked up I was like telling everyone about him & that I was "in love with him" & telling people that our sex was so good. He was so pissed that I was going around & saying all these things about our sex life & personal things. That went down the crapper really quick! Now that I'm in a new relationship, we get along great but I have noticed a few things that I don't know are normal or not like I hate that I can't keep my mouth shut sometimes. I always have to say what I'm thinking that instant. I know it's going to get me in trouble down the road because no one wants to date someone that is really dramatic. I don't like when I go out with my friends & their boyfriend or girlfriend makes them embarassed because of something they said or something that they shouldn't be telling the whole world. How can I retrain myself to not jump to the worst conclusion, say personal things that shouldn't be anyone else's business & make sure that I'm thinking before I speak? It's such a hard habit to break.

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  • sang4roid

    Not normal but it's big of you to be able to admit all this. Most girls like you can't even stop to think about their actions or how they are perceived by the people around them. But you seem different. more power to you!

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  • peterr

    Believe me, once you fuck up enough times you will change your behavior.

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  • PEARSIE

    Seems like you learned from your mistake and you are still working on it but its getting better. Sometimes you can just say things in your head first before you blurt it out .....I mean think about it. Good luck

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