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my girlfriend is 16 and im 22 . she's a virgin . we make out lot of times. usually the oral stuff or kissing.
but i feel a bit guilty as she's 6 years younger to me. we're pretty serious though and in love.
Nothing wrong with the age difference in my opinion. When I was 14, my boyfriend was 21. We waited to have sex until I was 17. I went to uni, became a nurse, both have great jobs. We have been together for 22 years, have 3 great children and will be friends forever :)
Getting a divorce now mind, but not really relevant.
Depends on your country whether it is legal or not. Here in Europe you're probably fine.
My gf is a lot younger too. I'd say it doesn't really matter. If you don't think she's too young it is fine.
Lot of people saying 'no too young', but it depends too much on personality, not only hers but yours too, for age to really be an indicator. So if you think the relationship is working, and you both are equals, then hell go for it.
I love how people take a semi-arbitrary age limit and take it as a law of nature.
(When I take the people I know and order them by childish [behaviour] in list a, and take the same people and order them by age in list b, then a!=b)
I don't see anything wrong with it...as long as her parents are ok with it.
That's nothing compared to my cousins. They have like a twenty year difference between them.
Behave yourself!! How long have you two been dating? Do you remember being 16 and how childish you were? How could you be attracted to a child? What could you have in common?
I think you're going to wreck her education and it won't last anyway, when she grows up a bit!
If I were her dad I'd kick your @ss up and down the street!
I swear when you're 16 its legal? I do however think you're too old for her, get with someone nearer your age, she's still at highschool!
im 16 and my boyfriend is 21, been together for 18 months, it's fine :) if you're in love and happy then it's normal :D
and people, he's not a peado.. e obviously just likes hher for her, the age don't matter. Dont judge people before you them you dykes :) x
@ Blackwargreymon , thanks for ure concern:)
@ck38 , glad to know someone has gone through a similar situation..
we're not like always doing the ahem, oral stuff, its like special occasions , like birthdays , valentine etc.. or maybe once in 2 months..
by most of ure responses i think its not that abnormal ,but i think i being the bigger person here, i should just wait for sometime , to see if this love or according to some people LUST or HORMONAL changes.
thankyou everyone it helped!:)
Bit lost on your 'oral stuff' euphimisme. Guessing that it is oral sex, wich makes me wonder how that actually is waiting for after mariage. ( I understand that from a technical standpoint oral sex is not intercourse, but judging from your responce it comes from religical grounds, which in their original doctrines usually don't leave room for the 'ha-ha no penis in vagina, so no intercourse'-defense by being more abstract in definition. (Think of lust or the modern word sex.) )
Not wanting to offend any religion in any way, but such a thing always makes me wonder: 'who are you trying to kid?'. And is it you making the decisions/speaking, or another autority figure. ( Spoken as a true bacchant hedonist:D )
AND TO BE VERY CLEAR.
I've planned the sexual intercourse after our marriage . have'nt done yet.
just the oral stuff and kissing
Umm u can get arrested in az for that. The law is the law you know Sucks u have to go to high school dances The cut off date for older bfs is 23 you just made it by a year
lol glad to see ..that much response.
GUYS U DIDN'T READ THE, "we are in love" part .
anyways the region where i live has very limited chances for guys to be with a girl,
because of strict reserved and religeous society.
we've been friends for like 2 years then it all happened when we realised that we are in love.
and guess what, i'm planning to marry her when she's 18 and legal:)
If I loved someone older than me and I knew I couldn't be with them I would tell them to wait till I'm legal... If you wait, you'll prove to her that you really do love and respect her and that you'll do anything for her. Are you willing to do that for her?
You might think you're in love but her hormones are raging and she just wants someone to satisfy so yeah don't get to involved just yet.
She's sixteen she is not an adult and for you to be with her irresponsible get off it and find someone your age
It's normal to date someone younger than you, but not do sexual things with them. If someone really wanted too, they could put a statuatory rape charge, because she is a minor and they might see doing sexual things counting as if you had sex.
Stop it and keep it in your pants. You can wait.
Wait till she's 18 cause that right there can put u in jail ur 22 she's underage
well the 16th birthday, in england well, its so big man! i mean, the day before, youd be a Pedo XD