Is it normal that i have a friend who is obsessed w/ me?

Well he seems like he could honestly be in love with you. You could just try to tell him nicely that you can't hang out every week, and if he cries then stand your ground. Truthfully of he doesn't get any better and you don't want to be a complete a** hole, you're graduating this year anyway

he sounds like he is in love with you

Yeah, that can't be normal, or healthy, to be honest. I would guess that he probably doesn't have very many other friends, or the "friends" he has are really mean to him. To him, you're possibly the only one who seems to care about him, and he enjoys that feeling so much that it comes off to you as obsession. My advice would be to not drop him as a friend completely; if he's this attached, losing you would likely hurt him very badly. I'm not saying, however, that you shouldn't set him straight. I've found that the best (meaning the most effective and easiest on both of you) way to do this is to pull him aside one day and talk to him privately. You could say something like "Hey. I think you're a great person, but I can't hang out with you all the time, and I would really appreciate a little space." Answer any questions he may have; he probably doesn't realize that his behavior is coming off like that. Try to stay calm but firm. He will most likely appreciate that you took the time to explain this to him calmly (rather than just blowing up at him and cutting off the relationship entirely) and will be more than happy to give you some space.

Tell him to leave u alone because He is annoying and tell him that he is NOT ur bestfriend. Maybe he will leave u alone

I had a friend named Will last year and he texted me constantly and acted like we were really close. I was so fed up with him(he was also kind of a perv). I ignored him for the next 3 monthes and he finally understood that I dont want to talk to him. Woot.

whats the fuck is wrong with you man? you feeling all important? someone respects and adores you and you find that a fuckin inconvenience? i would so fuckin love to beat the livin fuckin lights out of you if i was yonder. respect him man, be kind to that gentle soul. he is not obsessed with you, he just respects you. well dont take this as a message to be cruel to him. he deserves your kindness mate. he's got a girl so he sure isnt gay is he. you dont turn down a person who likes you as a human being like that? be kind to him. dont feel so fucking proud of yourself, if not for him you wont have anyone left in the world.

Yeah! it sucks and he is worried about when i graduate, he thinks his life will be nothing if i decide to move away or go to college. because he is so attatched to me! he's hurting his own Social,and personal life by being obsessed with me! *EPIC SIGH*

The word "clingy" comes to mind.

ahhhhhhhhhhhh i have the same problem, im in 8th and i have 2 friends in 7th who are like IN LOVE with me one of them wont leave me alone about school dances and other crap and the other one wont stop txting me. he txts me like every hour on the dot :L it kills...... it really does

dis is getting serious I tink hez in love with u bt he dsnt knw how 2 tel u I mean does he have 2 fyt with ha gf just bcos u dnt sms or col him? Thats weird ! This is more than the word obsessed!

I'd tell him to just go and all that but then he'll just leech onto someone else! And I truely don't wish this kind of obsession on anyone else! I've tried telling him he should seek a counselor but he gets all upset and changes the subject to some other issue! Which he have daily! Maybe when I graduate I'll leave and not tell him! It's sad I'd have to get rid of everything I know to get rid of my (creeper-stalkerish) friend-epic sigh- so yeah! Any thoughts? Lol

Tell him straight up "ur a pain in the ass get a fukkin life and leave me alone"

Don't lead him on. Just tell him how you feel but be nice about it because he sounds sensitive. Or maybe it's just that your his only
bestfriend and probably the only source of comfort he has.

I have a friend like that. It's so annoying and creepy. Before it goes to far. Tell them

yea sounds sorta gay to me(gay for him mr you(&

Sometimes people with few friends get very attached to one of them. He is probably lonely and does consider you his best friend. However, if you do not feel the same you need to tell him. Do not text, call or hang out with him. He will get over you after a while!

So what should I do?