Is it normal that i have a fetish for seeing men terrified?

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As far back as I can remember, I've been incredibly turned on by seeing men extremely scared. Mostly in movie scenes ('Fire in the Sky' UFO abduction scene is a good example), and the more realistically scared they seem, the better.

Its something about the light in their eyes, the heavy breathing, shaking, helplessness. If they are scared of an entity more powerful than them it is even better (eg. vampire or monster).

The turn-on is so extreme I can orgasm just visualising a really good scene.
If they get (seriously) hurt or killed in the same scene it ruins it completely though - empathy takes over. I just want to see them scared!
Is this normal???

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Based on 12 votes (5 yes)
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  • januarycurse
    8 years ago

    wow really kinky and exciting!

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    I'm scared by you. And so a terrible and unbreakable cycle of lust begins...

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    • amigoing
      12 years ago

      Love it!

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    Yeah normal for a dominatrix

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  • amigoing
    10 years ago

    Don't know if you're still around fire-guy, but I saw this and thought of you. :)

    http://youtu.be/N9iljuGxEOg

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  • xxxlostxxxforeverxxx
    12 years ago

    whoa.... that's a new 1. ;) lol xxxxxxxx

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I think it's normal. A lot of men want to be the hero and save the girl, seems like you have the same thing except in reverse. I honestly think it'll be hard to find a guy who will help you live out this sexual role play, but I can think of a couple guys who wouldn't mind.

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  • amigoing
    12 years ago

    Its a very sweet aspiration :), and since we've moved from juicy secrets to life-dreams, I always wanted to be an astronaut, still do.

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    • ziop802vt
      12 years ago

      i want to try to pull off sex in like a mall or something. thats kind of juicy. also i love when a girl lets me take charge and do what i want to her. theres 2. top that

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      • amigoing
        12 years ago

        Hehe ok, well I do fantasize about wrestling with a man for sex (guess that sounds kind of rape-ish, but rape is *not* part of the fantasy), its more a turn-on from tangibly feeling his physical strength...
        mind you, I do then also fantasize about him holding a knife to my throat... hmmm. Again, its not about rape in that for the fantasy to be successful I have to *know* he would stop if asked, I guess its more a fantasy about trusting someone enough to let them do that, plus knives are a potent male symbol! :)

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        • ziop802vt
          12 years ago

          potent indeed. you like to be submissive sexually im guessing

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        • infinite
          12 years ago

          I've had a woman threaten my manhood with a knife in bed, feeling the blade pressed against the underside, while she told me what she was going to take.

          Another woman almost bit it off, at my asking, I told her to bite, harder, harder, harder until if I said it again i'd really lose it.

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        • infinite
          12 years ago

          I was with a girl who had a rape fetish, our relationship began in a wrestling match. We were arguing over something trivial, she started getting physical, we were wrestling,her face ended up coming up to mine, she started kissing me and tearing my clothes off, surprised the crap out of me, because I was just having a friendly physical altercation, I just wanted to win a childish fight to prove a silly nonsensical point.

          And yes, I raped her and set her on fire while she played the aprt of a real rape/burning victim. She liked it more than I did, I still felt a bit wrong putting in effort to beat, rape, and burn her while she, screamed, cried, and fought back, but when I saw how much she honestly liked it, I felt okay giving her what she wants. It made me happy to make her happy. The rape and violence don't turn me on but seeing her get as much pleasure from it as I get from my fire fetish is the turn on.

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  • ziop802vt
    12 years ago

    i want to find someone to settle down with and all that. i know its not very juicy or sexy or erotic but it would have to be somewhere else for secrets like that

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  • ziop802vt
    12 years ago

    @amigoing
    i say youre cute. tell me a secret

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    • amigoing
      12 years ago

      you first ;)

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      • ziop802vt
        12 years ago

        hmm, about what

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        • amigoing
          12 years ago

          Anything at all, but something you've never told anyone before. ;)

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          • ziop802vt
            12 years ago

            alright. its very public for that but let me think.

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  • infinite
    12 years ago

    Normal or not, that's pretty hot!

    I'm a guy with a fetish for fire, and one of my biggest fantasies is having a woman set me on fire and not let me put myself out, she would just keep pouring more fuel on me. A big turn on aside from being on fire would be the fear/terror if she could make me feel such a thing. It would really be amazing if she would surprise me, light me up as I awake, or sneak up when I'm not expecting it and do it.

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    • amigoing
      12 years ago

      I have many methods. ;)

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      • infinite
        12 years ago

        Nice. Wanna be the one that lights this kind of fire? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXgvt3wUNH4
        Msg me on youtube if ya wanna chat

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        • ziop802vt
          12 years ago

          that video is fake. you, as in your skin and clothes, aren't on fire. plus you dont seem too worried about it.

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          • infinite
            12 years ago

            The first video I posted was a pile of flaming logs over my lower body. Some of my clothes were alight.

            Here you go, here's clothes on fire for real
            http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wlgO691xPtU

            And here's some naked wet skin aflame
            http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sZRLIN8e23Y

            Or how about this with a bit of gel that provides some minor protection, but still gets hot
            http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BEwXphIby5E

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            • ziop802vt
              12 years ago

              i would call you crazy but i just read some of the stuff you were talking about and i see its well though and something that truly does arouse you body and mind. good for you sir

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        • amigoing
          12 years ago

          Its a little too 'inflicting of actual pain/injury' for my liking. I'm definitely not into physical sadism.
          Plus it looks too enjoyable (ie. not frightening) for the fire fetishist, which means my 'kick' is gone... although you'd be the best one to explain how it does feel for you. ;)
          I admit I'm quite fascinated by the fetish... is there an element of surrendering yourself up to something more powerful than you (something that could kill you)?
          I'm tempted to write a little story about a human/fire-elemental relationship now. ;)

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          • infinite
            12 years ago

            That's a good way to put it, surrendering myself to fire, but it's more than just that, although it's a big part of it.

            It's not actually all that painful, I get a few red marks and smaller blisters, I get burned worse cooking than I do being on fire, and although I do enjoy the pain of it, for me it's not a sadism thing.

            And yes, I do enjoy being on fire, and as far as fear, it's not like what I used to feel, but there's some there before I light up. Once I'm on fire though, it's transcendental, I go beyond fear and all emotion, complete detachment, I'm set free from everything, including myself. It's sexual, but it's also way more than that, for me it's deeply symbolic and meaningful in so many ways, depending on the context of the situation. While I do use it to overcome fear, I think i'd be able to convince myself to indulge in my fear if I put the fire in someone else's control.

            If you want to know more, ask me about it.

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            • amigoing
              12 years ago

              I do wonder if its almost a symbolic enactment of union with 'God' (I use God rather metaphorically). The burning up of the physical self, and the loss of the ego, to find the untouchable core.
              I am fascinated... hence the theorising. ;) And there is something about it I find alluring too, although trying to analyse what, heh.
              How do you think you would feel if the fire got out of control and seriously started to burn you? Would fear/survival kick in to the max? Or would part of you be tempted to allow it? Indeed, does part of you wish for it? Is there an element of redemption in it?

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  • ziop802vt
    12 years ago

    yea its normal. everyone gets horned up differently. try finding a partner and waiting in his closet with a jason mask and a knife. haha, he might assault you if you do that though

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    • amigoing
      12 years ago

      Too fast. I want to smell the sweat, and feel the breath on my skin. >:)

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      • ziop802vt
        12 years ago

        woops i replied without hitting reply. i didnt know it works like that

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        • amigoing
          12 years ago

          Don't see any replies except the 'woops i replied' reply. :)

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          • ziop802vt
            12 years ago

            down below you sneak

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    thats funny

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    • amigoing
      12 years ago

      you're cute

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  • LightningTechnician
    12 years ago

    It's not normal.

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    • amigoing
      12 years ago

      Yeah, the lack of fear-porn for girls kind of tipped me off. Thanks for confirming. :P

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