Is it normal that i have a feeling like this?

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Is about the relationship of me and a friend
Fisrt off let's get clear some things I am a guy and my friend is a male too. Neither of us is gay or bisexual. BTW I have some kind of weird feeling.

This friend of mine is one of the best friends I ever had. He is a intelligent guy, activist, in favor of peace, ambientalist and musician. He is in love with this last one, he plays the guitar, the piano and the violin. He also is a good singer is very wise and friendly. Someone admirable for me.

The thing is that... I have a weird feeling when I'm near him. I don't talk a lot to him since he is a grade higher than me so we can meet for some short times. But when I see him I forget all of my problems and makes my day be happy, even if I had a hard day with only talking with him makes me happy. I really care about his opinion about me and I wish I could talk to him... you know... is one of those persons that with only seeing them it cheers you up...

anyways I want to know... I am the only one whose have ever got a feeling like this when beeing with a friend?

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Based on 31 votes (24 yes)
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  • FireWorks
    12 years ago

    That's simply because you admire him, I guess. You're attracted to his personality. He's something that you're not so you tend to wanna be closer to him to 'complete' you.
    It happened to me though I can't recall when.. =)

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    • inconstant-delirious
      12 years ago

      I think you're right
      By the way I can also add, that sometimes I cannot stop thinking about him. And even just watching him going around makes me feel happy. Even if I don't talk to him

      He's such a nice person.

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      • FireWorks
        12 years ago

        I was going to say that it was maybe because you had some kinda brotherly feeling with him but when you replied to Darkoil below, you just made an impression that you shouldn't have done that. Like it's something wrong. Which sounds awkward to me.
        Nothing's wrong with brotherly feeling though. Or if it could make you feel comfortable, try to channel that 'overflowing' feeling to your girlfriend.

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        • inconstant-delirious
          12 years ago

          I never done something like that~ I won't ever do something like that

          Girlfriend? I am forever alone in real life :'o

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          • FireWorks
            12 years ago

            Hahaha! Don't say things like that. You'll get one sooner or later~

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  • Ono
    12 years ago

    Sounds like you got a case of man crush. Nothing to worry about.

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    • inconstant-delirious
      12 years ago

      I do not have a crush with him. I just want to know why do I have a feeling like that

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    its because you you regular people are smart but do not understand nothing the very smart people have to say because your not into what they have to say your stuck on your own believes and so are they

    im sorry but every thing i read looks and sounds like a book/rime.

    why is this.

    don't post me back

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  • Wierdmyself
    12 years ago

    Mancrushes... never had one, sometimes I wish I was more comfortable with other guys.

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    • inconstant-delirious
      12 years ago

      A crush?
      But I do not feel that I love him. I just like him.

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  • Darkoil
    12 years ago

    Actually it does sound like you love him, not in a sexual way, just like in a bromance way.

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    • inconstant-delirious
      12 years ago

      Like the brother I never had? I dunno
      But no. I won't kiss him or something like that. I just like to hang with him~

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      • Darkoil
        12 years ago

        Love does not always have a sexual capacity, forget about black and white being the only colours and you may understand what i mean.

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        • inconstant-delirious
          12 years ago

          I know exactly what you mean.
          I don't have nothing against different sexual preferences but, we are not gay and I am not going to try it out. Especially with him. I don't want to ruin our friendship.

          Is just... that I feel... that my life won't be the same if it wasn't because of him

          Only seeing him cheers me up. Talking and hanging with him makes my day- however I still don't find normal that I just have a feeling like this just with him

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