Is it normal that i have a crush on my stepsister?

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After my father married second time I had hard time getting along. My step mom had a son & daughter. I knew them from childhood. I study at a college far from home. So I'm not home for much of the year. But when I come home... I'm always longing for her. She is a year younger than me. She's all that I want in a girl. beautiful, smart, caring and all. We usually just make friendly gossip. Sometimes I feel she likes me. She shares quite personal issues with me. But then again I feel maybe it's because of a want to be close to a boy. And maybe fade away over time. But I on the other hand can't stop thinking about her. I'm careful to not do anything stupid. Mom never trust me around her. She is right though. father's marriage hit me cause now I can't possibly marry her. I never felt so strongly about anyone before. True, I never had a girlfriend. But what feel for her is different. Is it normal?

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  • Short4Words
    9 years ago

    Different than what? Maybe you should see what else is out their before you make up your mind. She could just be the closest you've ever been to a woman.

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    • TrustMeImLying
      9 years ago

      ^ well said

      it is possible to love a sibling or stepsibling and it be platonic feeling (i.e. nonsexual), but you get confused and illusioned into thinking that it's something more.

      she's opened up to you thinking of you as a brother, and that's probably one of the main reasons you like her such, you've never had that closeness before with a girl, since you claim you've never had a GF. You've basically answered your own question

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  • Johnnytherat
    9 years ago

    get it son! get it.

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  • la_uva_mojada
    9 years ago

    She's not blood, but hell, try inviting her out for a beer and then get her drunk and then eat her into oblivion and if you can please her you got her and then tell your family tough shit you're an item.

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  • CrimsonDeadly
    9 years ago

    Been there, even "played" with my step-sister when we were both younger and going through that curious stage (technically speaking we took each others virginity's)... You aren't blood related, only related through marriage, so I honestly say go for it. You have no ties when it comes to your genes, so it's not like you'd have mutant baby's or anything (not that you'd have baby's... I'm just stating my point lol)

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  • My02cents
    9 years ago

    Absolutely nothing wrong with it !!!

    She is not your real sister and never will be.

    I say GO FOR IT !!

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