Is it normal that i have a crush on my step brother?

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Okay, so my step brother is only 3 years older than I, and I started having feelings for him waayy before my dad and step mom got married. Before marriage was even a thought for them. But as time went on, we grew closer to each other, more than I had ever had with anyone else.. One day, when I was giving him a massage (like I always do), he kissed me. I thought it was only going to be a one time thing, so I kinda shrugged it off.. But he continued, and now we hug and hold hands and kiss in secret, when no one's around. It's like if we're dating now. I think I love him, and he told me he loves me, but I just want to know if this is normal or not..?????

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    I agree with most everyone else here, he's not blood related so go ahead and enjoy it

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  • regisphilbin
    8 years ago

    there's mutual attraction and no incest involved, so why not. your parents might be a little shocked but it comes with the territory.

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  • kelili
    8 years ago

    Nothing wrong.

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork
    8 years ago

    Love has no boundaries... neither does lust for that matter. You are normal. If you have mutual feelings for each other, then go on dates and see if there is any potential for a long-term relationship. There is no reason to deny yourself happiness because of someone else's marriage (which may not last forever... but then again, maybe your relationship with him won't last forever either). Be with him, and follow your heart. If it works out, then you both found happiness in each other... if it doesn't work out, then at least you know, and you can still be friends with him. Good luck.

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  • Elixis
    8 years ago

    You're not related by blood, so it's technically okay. Just make sure not to get accidentally pregnant. If it gets that serious, use protection. Extra protection. All the protection. :3

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  • Sprungindentod
    8 years ago

    yup totally normal. have fun with each other!

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  • deerhunter123
    8 years ago

    you could do stuff with him. he is not blood related

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  • Redcoats
    8 years ago

    It's a bad idea. Don't pursue it.

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