Is it normal that i have a crush on my roommate?

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I just started college last August. I'm bi but I don't tell someone unless they ask. I actually have a huge crush on my roommate. I'm not sure if she likes girls but I can't help but like her. I don't want to make things weird since we live together. I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced feelings for a roommate but not known how to handle it.

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  • RougeTheBat
    11 years ago | pl

    Drop hints about your sexuality,then work into conversations questions about if she would ever be with a girl.just don't be pushy.

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    • shuggy-chan
      11 years ago

      drop hints... like those panties... awwwww yeahhh

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      • baller08
        11 years ago

        I'll get right on that

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      • Kilroy4
        10 years ago

        Real smooth

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  • hafachick
    11 years ago

    Its not a good idea to date a roommate.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    Try and find out if she's interested in girls. Maybe find some way to let her know you're bi (maybe while watching a movie with a hot chick in it? mention "oh she's really hot" shortly after saying some dude is hot. If she doesn't ask she'll at least have an idea lol) and if she's interested in girls just ask her out sometime

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  • Epofly
    11 years ago

    It is normal to have a crush on anyone, regardless of sexuality. However, I highly recommend you ask her, or at least find out in some way about her sexual orientation. I have witnessed many female friendships dissolve because an initiating move was made without confirmation as to whether the crush in question was bisexual too.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Why don't you just ask her? Is asking someone this such a weird question? It might just be me since I had a lot of gays at my school but everyone would ask that. Just so we know who is who. Just ask her what hers is. Dont ask "Are you gay" just ask "Hey are you into girls or boys" or something like that.

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  • changes123
    11 years ago

    EVERYTHING WILL BECOME AWKWARD. Heed my words. Do not confess to her, or even hint that you like her because your roommate might make an unnecessary big deal out of it. Things will go down south from then on. Good thing spring semester is almost over :)

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    • baller08
      11 years ago

      that's exactly what I've been thinking!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Oh thats a toughie. Just take it slow and try not think about her.

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  • baronroderick
    11 years ago

    My roommates never have attracted me, but that was simply by chance, I just don't find them attractive. But I know of many stories. You would be surprised to know how common is for people to fall for they roommates.

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  • onehandinthehoneyjar
    11 years ago

    show some serious ass crack "on accident". come out of the shower and try to dash to your room as if you don't want anyone to see you. wink wink. watch a movie late night on the couch and get close and cuddly and see what happens. ask her if she thinks you have a nice body. give each other massages, then rub her coochie. lol. i'm just fishin here. haha.

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  • highrider
    11 years ago

    Ask her if shes straight bi or lez

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  • Highyway_99
    11 years ago

    What up with the lesbians.

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    Get her really pissed then go in for the kill, your a woman so this kind of behavior is not classed as rape.

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    • baller08
      11 years ago

      best advice ever

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      • Darkoil
        11 years ago

        Haha well I am here to help..... :-)

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        • baller08
          11 years ago

          well you sure did :)

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          • Skitzo1
            11 years ago

            Careful, might make things awkward!!
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            IF she remembers anything.

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