Is it normal that i have a crush on a girl even though im straight?

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from my first day at university,i noticed this girl,she looks like any normal one but i couldnt get my eyes off of her all the time,until now i keep staring at her & there's smth about her eyes that i keep wondering about and i always wana be arround her and wana get to know her and be with her!in my whole life i've never thought about a girl this way..and the worst part is tht i have a bf and we've been together for 1 year!i need some serious help here!

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  • fullmetaljo
    13 years ago

    it could just be admiration for someone who is beautiful, you find them interesting and you just naturally radiate towards them. it's not like you want her in your pants and if you do that's not wrong you just need to work that out with yourself.

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  • suckysucky5dawr
    13 years ago

    yes feelings are feelings..no matter who for. your completely normal. why dont you try being friends with her at least. that way, youll be able to figure more things out about yourself. im not saying go after her and CHEAT. cuz thats wrong. but instead of obsessing over the thoughts in your head, confront them and realize them. theres this movie called 'imagine me and you' and its about a chick married to this dude..and she falls in love with another woman. shes never had feelings for other women tho. its a great movie. and it definately proves that anyone can fall for anyone. just saying..

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  • 4w04se
    14 years ago

    I followed my heart to get what I want.. and I can't stop regretting it .. Everytime I do it i feel extremely selfish and self-absorbed.

    Do it and Regret it later on

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  • UnintentionallyIgnorant
    14 years ago

    maybe shed be down for a triangle effect. ill bet your bf would be stoked as long as its mainly physical.

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  • littleone
    14 years ago

    Sexual orientation is a complete societal construct.

    Feelings are feelings, there's no need to categorize them.
    Now, if this is simply an erotic fantasy, I wouldn't recommend dumping a boyfriend over it. But if you genuinely have strong feelings for her, you may want to reconsider your relationship.

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    • vanishedwithoutatrace
      14 years ago

      I agree completely. There's absolutely no reason not to just accept your feelings and explore them. It's healthy and will help you understand and be more aware of yourself.

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    • dazedandconfused19
      14 years ago

      i know exactly how you feel. I myself am confused about a similar situation. Maybe your heart just wants what it wants? or this is just curiosity...

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