Is it normal that i have a boyfriend but i like another guy ?

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I have a boyfriend for almost 2 years now and I know that i still love him very much , but... :

I have a good male friend (we know each other for almost 5 years) and I really like him as a friend. But something happened 2 weeks ago. We (my friends and me, also that male friend , but not my boyfriend) were hanging out as always and I felt that something happened between us- suddenly there was kind of a spark between us and it scared me. I know that I have no real feelings for him , but is it possible that I just want to have the feeling back of being free and having the chance to flirt with someone as in the beginning of realtionships ? I´m really confused by this situation , I love my boyfriend and I don´t want this spark between me and my male friend as I want to keep the friendship , but somehow I can´t stop thinking about it.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Everybody is the same. Love can last a lifetime, but is always squashed by some "new exciting crush". Is some "exciting freedom" worth losing your boyfriend forever, and having to face his hurt face to tell him?

    If yes then leave him, do not cheat it will only be worse.

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    • Leyla
      11 years ago

      I won´t cheat, that´s for sure... I´m not that kind of person , thanks for your comment :)

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      • Captain_Kegstand
        11 years ago

        Good, the one thing that really pisses me off is that everybody cheats. I don't know if it is our generation or what, but cheating is considered normal, and "cool" now!

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        • Leyla
          11 years ago

          might be true, but I love my boyfriend and if you really love someone you won´t cheat.If you do so , then it was not real.

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          • Captain_Kegstand
            11 years ago

            Well props to you, every single girl I have ever had a serious relationship with, has cheated on me. And most every guy I know has cheated. I don't understand who that is so socially acceptable!

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            • Flippyfloppy
              11 years ago

              I don't get it either people who cheat on serious relationships deserve to die

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        • IrishPotato
          11 years ago

          I don't cheat, I think it's quite wrong to do so.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Yet another example of why straight men and women cant "just be friends".

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  • bigguy2010
    11 years ago

    I agree with purple. Thoughts and feelings can come right out of nowhere. Go ahead and look at the menu; just don't place an order.

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  • *~ThePurplePixie~*
    11 years ago

    Hey there!

    This seems almost utterly normal!
    I've been married to my husband since I was 18, so that's almost 5 and a half years now.
    I often get 'sparks' flying between me and other guys...I even felt a wee bit of a tug at my heartstrings with my brother in-law - my husband's brother!
    It's fine, as long as nothing happens. It's nothing to be worried about, either.
    We're humans, yeah? Humans are curious. Sexual. Interested. Just as if it's part of our genetic make-up, of course.
    Good luck!
    xx

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    • Leyla
      11 years ago

      this helped me a lot , thank you ! :)
      I´m glad that I´m not the only one who had this "problem"...
      xx

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      • *~ThePurplePixie~*
        11 years ago

        No worries, anytime!

        xx

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  • Flippyfloppy
    11 years ago

    Its lust and the very second after you orgasm the feeling is gone but the damage has been done and it remains

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    • Flippyfloppy
      11 years ago

      I don't mean the feeling of the orgasm i mean the spark feeling

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